I haven't finished listening to Noah's interview yet, but something that struck me in Natalie's was that she expressed a belief that [people like JK Rowling] believe that disrupting the notion of gender and making things more jumbled up with the intent to allow people freedom to be who they are without feeling bound by stereotypes - that this will cause people to become violent and predatory in toilets, and therefore people like JK Rowling are afraid of gender shake up.
But that's not right. First of all it doesn't make any sense - why would breaking down the boundaries of gender or whatever just randomly cause people to become violent? It doesn't make any sense because that's not what radical feminists are arguing, nor what they are "afraid" of.
What the real issue is is that male violence and misogyny are endemic. A significant percentage of men (and I don't know or even think it particularly matters whether we are talking about 60%, 20%, 1%, 0.1% - significant because misogyny affects every woman and male violence affects almost every woman and some children) do not see women as fully human and feel entitled to control them, grope them, rape them, as it suits them.
But nobody outside feminist circles acknowledges this! It's like some big secret that everyone colludes in. Like oh, well, yeah, sorry that happened to you, but that was just one bad man, rather than seeing the widespread pattern. Like family annihilations being "an isolated event". Like the police being misogynist suddenly being in the news and being a surprise to everyone, when every organisation is misogynist!
It's not that gender obfuscation is likely to change this pattern, it probably won't. But it's already really hard to talk about gendered violence and sex discrimination, to study it, to get people to see it. Making it taboo to place people into groups by their biological sex, erasing language that denotes biological sex, making out that biological sex "isn't binary" or doesn't matter makes that even harder. And I think it's incredibly important for us (as a society) to understand.
Also, the effect of growing up in patriarchy and rape culture should absolutely be explored as to how it is affecting young GNC women and girls, because a lot of the discomfort and distress young trans boys and NB girls express sounds way more like "It's unbearable to grow up in this environment with this body". (Which I think most TRAs would agree with. It's just we have a different understanding of what "this environment" is.)
They think that deconstructing gender will magically disperse stereotypes but that is not how sexism works. Sexism is not just based on stereotypes which came out if nowhere. Those stereotypes are based on people either being in the "person" (male, adult) class or the "object/property" (female, child) class.