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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Women's rights general conversations - Thread 2

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Kucingsparkles · 24/12/2022 17:17

Continuation of Thread 1

There is so much excellent information and so many active discussions on FWR that I wondered if it would be useful to have a thread to sort of "cross-fertilise" between them - airing little thoughts or vignettes that wouldn't themselves merit their own thread, to highlight other posts/threads of particular interest or to point to notable developments on fast-moving threads so that casual observers know where to look.

(For example, "the X thread has meandered onto a fascinating discussion of Y" or "Poster P's amazing analysis on thread Z might have relevance to the scenario in thread W" or even "Random bloke asked me to smile while I was choosing onions, grr"- that sort of thing).

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BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 09/01/2023 09:55

Have just stuck my head over the parapet at work and objected to the use of both cis and AFAB.

IcakethereforeIam · 09/01/2023 10:00

There are a few articles in today's online Guardian that are interesting. One about safeguarding shortcomings at after school clubs, out of school settings and the like. Some of the failings mentioned will be very familiar to posters on FWR. Settle is trying to sue SM because children have poor mental health and then there's this one

www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/jan/08/young-people-bodies-capitalism-fat-cellulite

Kucinghitam · 09/01/2023 10:06

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 09/01/2023 09:55

Have just stuck my head over the parapet at work and objected to the use of both cis and AFAB.

That's brave!

CyanCrystalViolet · 09/01/2023 10:28

@BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn what was the context? I keep expecting the terms to come up at university but so far so good. Even the short course I did on women’s healthcare recently was thankfully spared.

Britinme · 09/01/2023 10:55

That Zoe Williams article that makes a lot of sense.

Britinme · 09/01/2023 10:56

Too many that's. You know what I mean. Damn the lack of an edit button.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 09/01/2023 10:58

That's pretty much what the bot said too 😆

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 09/01/2023 11:03

Context is a tricky one because it's about risk levels for a hormone-related disease, so we do need the reader to be absolutely clear about which group is what and can't assume they will read 'women' as meaning only actual women. And we do need to be absolutely neutral in the language.

The writer has used a mix of cis and AFAB. The person I've spoken to so far agreed on avoiding cis but didn't know AFAB was controversial. He was fine - as I expected he would be - but it's going to be part of a conversation that could go all the way to the top and I'm less sure about the views of some of the others who will be involved.

IcakethereforeIam · 09/01/2023 11:13

The ZW article, so far as I know (and I'd love to be wrong) she is fully tra. Twaw, children should be affirmed. So there seems to be an element of cognitive dissonance. Even the bit about NB children being especially vulnerable to mental health difficulties. I'd interpret that as a symptom. She doesn't seem to.

Kucinghitam · 09/01/2023 11:15

So there seems to be an element of cognitive dissonance.

IME that's always the case with the BeKind-TRSOHers (as opposed to the full-on TRAs, or the men-who-just-live-putting-women-in-their-placers).

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 09/01/2023 11:28

BTW, if anyone has ideas for the best terms for women-who-are-actually-women (and men likewise) that won't be objectionable to either side, I'm all ears.

Kucinghitam · 09/01/2023 11:34

Adult Human Female?

Homo sapiens of the body plan evolved around the production of large immotile gametes?

ErrolTheDragon · 09/01/2023 11:42

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 09/01/2023 11:28

BTW, if anyone has ideas for the best terms for women-who-are-actually-women (and men likewise) that won't be objectionable to either side, I'm all ears.

Woman.

We need to keep pushing back on this. Males with a feminine gender identity may be called 'transwomen'. Perfectly clear and logical.

DeanVolecapeAKAelderberry · 09/01/2023 12:49

I have come to feel that it has to be transwomen all one word to make it very clear that it isn't a subcategory of women, but something different and not relevant to women's medical issues or discussions of same, but that transmen, also all one word, might helpfully be explicitly included.

Boiledbeetle · 09/01/2023 12:59

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 09/01/2023 11:28

BTW, if anyone has ideas for the best terms for women-who-are-actually-women (and men likewise) that won't be objectionable to either side, I'm all ears.

Woman get my vote and transwoman all one word to describe men who want to be us.

Boiledbeetle · 09/01/2023 13:00

Just caught up and seen there is now three posts in a row saying the same exact thing😁

duc748 · 09/01/2023 13:13

Cos they is right, innit? As Erroll says, it needs push-back.

Britinme · 09/01/2023 13:26

I vote for transwoman all one word.

duc748 · 09/01/2023 13:42

AFAB and AMAB are horrible weasel terms too, don't like to see them getting 'official' currency.

Britinme · 09/01/2023 13:45

Yes I hate that too. Assigned means somebody makes a decision that could be arbitrary. Observed means that's what is apparent on the basis of the vast majority of people's experience . There is a tiny number of people with a DSD but that becomes apparent later.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 09/01/2023 13:49

In theory I'm with you on 'just use woman', but in practice that will not fly in this circumstance. And given that it's publishing before the end of the week I don't have time to change the whole of society to make it work- so, seriously, I need suggestions.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 09/01/2023 13:52

(Also, a hard agree on transwoman rather than trans woman but I may have to let that go for now.)

CyanCrystalViolet · 09/01/2023 13:53

How about women* and in tiny writing at the end, ‘biological females’?

Britinme · 09/01/2023 13:53

How about natal woman?

CyanCrystalViolet · 09/01/2023 13:54

Or a ‘note on terminology’ at the beginning that the word Women refers to biological females?

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