From my observations, and I must stress that these are observations which, in itself is an issue as I’ve never seen any TRA actually answer this question.
We get told to listen and learn but then also told that there is no debate which is a contradictory position.
Anyway… from my observations, there is conflation of “rights” and the practicalities of rights being upheld.
Trans people should not, for example, be discriminated against in the workplace, yet there are countless testimonials of bullying, harassment or not being selected for jobs for which an individual may be highly qualified.
I can’t imagine may people would disagree that this is wrong and there are rights which should, in theory, protect against these things happening.
The thing is, women also have these rights, and we also have the practical, lived experience of the rights not being upheld in practice – being patronised or harassed as a woman in the workplace, or turned down for a job because we are of child bearing age.
Yes it’s possible to challenge these things legally but in reality not many women do – it’s stressful, costly and time consuming. I guess trans people feel the same way about challenging discrimination.
What this comes down to, for me, is the male view of the world. The experience of not having to fight to be noticed, not having being bullied or have to work twice as hard to prove you can do the same job as your male counterpart.
I suspect this is where the issue of rights gets confused. Their “rights” suddenly not being visibly accessible suggests that these rights don’t actually exist. They’ll say they need more rights or they don’t have the same rights as other people when in actual fact the argument needs to be that their existing rights should be recognised.
Disclaimer here about rights which come into direct legal conflict with existing sex-based rights. I don’t think I can say anything which hasn’t already been posted many times before and in more articulate ways that I could muster. Again, no debate is the problem. Human rights exist, sex-based rights exist and there should be proper debate about the overlap areas rather than silencing and cancelling the people who seek to question the issue and then expecting women to budge up and give away our rights.