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Chimamanda Ngozie Adichie Reith Lectures R4 this morning

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JoyousAsOtters · 30/11/2022 09:42

Standing in my kitchen clapping and tears in my eyes listening to this. (Dogs very confused.)
Every single word is so considered, deliberate and illuminating. She is utterly devastating.

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RoyalCorgi · 01/12/2022 10:45

I didn't really like her answer to Harry, because it seemed to contradict her main argument.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/12/2022 10:50

I listened on bbc sounds and didn’t think I heard a question from Kathleen Stock.

There was. It was about censorship and self-censorship in literature. Between David Baddiel and Matthew D'Ancona.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 01/12/2022 11:27

‘The antidote to bad speech is more speech ‘
Such a compelling lecture

FunnyTalks · 01/12/2022 13:54

RoyalCorgi · 01/12/2022 10:45

I didn't really like her answer to Harry, because it seemed to contradict her main argument.

Agree it was a contradiction. However, I think that she is unaware of him and his campaign. I'm very sympathetic to him but the way his question was phrased, I think, quite reasonably, made CNA think of hate speech against women and black people.

nauticant · 01/12/2022 13:55

I think he asked a question playing to his audience and she answered it playing to hers. There was no effective communication between the two of them.

nettie434 · 01/12/2022 15:42

Thanks to the download link provide by Nauticant, I took a look at Chimamanda's answer to Harry. My interpretation was that he said he liked to be contrary on principle whereas she felt that free speech is not simply a rhetorical device but has consequences. We shouldn't make untrue statements such as 'woman are inferior' just simply as an exercise in free speech.

Of course her stance is not the same as Voltaire's but then Voltaire didn't have to deal with so many misinformation proponents. That's just my interpretation. I might be wrong. It was just such a pleasure to hear someone engaging with the topic of free speech so eloquently.

Slothtoes · 01/12/2022 19:31

I thought that was a great talk and I enjoyed the Q&A too

Slothtoes · 01/12/2022 19:34

I loved her point about not wanting affection if it were forced. It’s all in there.

ValancyRedfern · 01/12/2022 19:55

I think Harry's initial question didn't come across well. His clarification about the Overton Window was much better. If I hadn't know who Harry Miller was I'd have probably reacted like Chimamanda as well.

The more I think about the response to the trans question the more I like it, and the more the snide 'even some people in this room'of the questioner gives me the rage.

SherbettingSherbert · 01/12/2022 20:00

I so wish I was educated and eloquent enough to intelligently contribute to this chat. As it is , at almost 40 I’m just now pulling myself up by bootstraps on feminism.

But I just wanted to thank OP for dropping this gem on my path.

I listened to Chimamanda’s lecture today after seeing this thread and have been moved beyond words. By the content and her delivery of it. I was in awe. I have subsequently listened to her on Elizabeth Day’s How To Fail and…well, it’s like I’ve just heard my new superhero.

Dear Ijeawele is in my Amazon basket as we speak, I strive to better myself as a mother for DD. My soul is on fire, in the best way.

Thank you.

JoyousAsOtters · 01/12/2022 20:08

You’re so very welcome Sherbet! Adichie is indeed a goddess, and you have so many treats in store when you read her books, or listen to her talks. Search for ‘We Should All Be Feminists’ for a listen, and to my mind her best book is ‘Half of a Yellow Sun’.

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SherbettingSherbert · 01/12/2022 20:11

@JoyousAsOtters will absolutely look at both of those. Thank you!

ChateauMargaux · 01/12/2022 22:04

I am also very much in love with this beautiful woman. She said so many things that I was nodding along to, so many that made me think - yes, I self censor.. and yes, I get furious with books when I think the writer is writing what they think will be received and when you can see the hand of the writing team in it. I loved her answer to Harry Miller... it was very much - no, freedom of speech does not give you the right to be disagreeable just because you feel like it. It would have been great to hear from the police - shame they declined! I was surprised that I enjoyed the discussion with David Baddiel. The questions seemed really curated which left me feeling a little played - however - I think she played it very well indeed and bravo to the curation of the questions.

ChateauMargaux · 01/12/2022 22:07

PS - thanks for the transcript - I was looking for one - shame about the Kathleen Scott question being missed off... and the person who said people in this audience think that transpeople should not exist - well she didn't read the room - did she?

Scarfymcscarface · 01/12/2022 22:30

It stopped me in my tracks. I can’t wait to listen properly to the whole lot. So eloquent and clever!

PrinceYakimov · 01/12/2022 23:31

Hugely enjoyed this too.

I was disappointed by the way Harry put his question, because it was a great opportunity to ask about how we should respond to politicisation of state institutions as a result of them engaging in and absorbing the norms of discourse on social media. I also didn't buy CNA's position that if we ignore social media it will all be fine precisely because of real world effects like this, and it would have been good to explore this.

I think Harry was trying to be tongue in cheek, but without knowing about his case it would have sounded like he was arguing for an 'anything goes' version of free speech rights, including things like incitement to hatred.

Slothtoes · 02/12/2022 02:19

I was disappointed by the way Harry put his question, because it was a great opportunity to ask about how we should respond to politicisation of state institutions as a result of them engaging in and absorbing the norms of discourse on social media.

Agreed he came over a bit immature and contrary for its own sake in the question which was then to easily dismissed as self indulgence and not really making any serious point- I do agree he has a serious point to make.

Great distillation of the point about regulatory capture- which goes as a risk across all lawmaking institutions. She’d already alluded to it in publishing, academia etc. it stands to reason that no institution can fully resist once a cultural force of fear like this takes hold which is why we need personal critical thinking and moral courage (as CNA summed up re moral courage) but also we specifically and desperately need institutional leaders with critical thinking and moral courage.

I see totally the risks that CNA points out with personal and institutional exposure to social media. I don’t know how we get around it. I think that ship has sailed already and it makes me very worried for the future. I agreed with what CNA said (IIRC) that social media platforms should be treated like utilities for the purposes of governing them. They should because we use them that way.

Especially with Twitter heading in an even more unhinged direction under Elon Musk and that platform still being widely used by credible institutions, governments, key policy influencers (though presumably time is running out for the platform?) In which case, something else more moderated and regulated (or something less so) will take over as the most popular platform.

As a major side point to this thread, it’s concerning for global collective memory that so much Twitter content that is an important document of recent years could potentially be lost. Presumably Twitter owns and gets to keep everyone’s published tweets on the platform?

PriOn1 · 02/12/2022 04:07

Harry Miller is always a bit of a wild card. His strengths include a high degree of everymanism. He comes across as knowledgeable and filled with common sense quite a lot of the time, which I’m sure was a great asset in court, for example. But now and then, the other side shows, where hos opinions can be somewhat extreme and perhaps tempered a little too much with flights of fancy and somewhat cynical humour that makes it much harder for him to be taken seriously.

I haven’t listened yet, but thanks for the link, OP. I was shown her first lecture a couple of weeks back at a conference. I will listen to this one over the weekend. Definitely something to look forward to!

FancyFelix · 02/12/2022 06:28

I've been saving this thread until I had a chance to listen to the lecture. God she was fabulous!!

I love everything I've ever read of hers too, she's bloody brilliant. I went out on my lunch break and treated myself to another of her books.

I wish I had half her composure, bravery and capacity for thought. What a woman.

I can't stick that Elizabeth day podcast normally as I find her so sycophantic and fawning over the guests but I will search out the episode mentioned above - all fawning is justified in this case!

WarriorN · 02/12/2022 06:56

A day to myself, will listen with bliss later

SherbettingSherbert · 02/12/2022 08:18

FancyFelix · 02/12/2022 06:28

I've been saving this thread until I had a chance to listen to the lecture. God she was fabulous!!

I love everything I've ever read of hers too, she's bloody brilliant. I went out on my lunch break and treated myself to another of her books.

I wish I had half her composure, bravery and capacity for thought. What a woman.

I can't stick that Elizabeth day podcast normally as I find her so sycophantic and fawning over the guests but I will search out the episode mentioned above - all fawning is justified in this case!

Fair comment on Elizabeth Day. I’d never heard her before as literally went searching for anything and everything CNA on Spotify. There was definitely a lot of fawning but with no frame of reference I just assumed it was because she is such an impressive woman!

The podcast is centred mostly around CNA’s grief and perceived failures of losing both her parents. Her way of speaking was somewhat comforting.

PreparationPreparationPrep · 02/12/2022 08:35

Manderleyagain · 30/11/2022 22:41

Yes that was him powershower.

I did agree with her and admired how she wasn't brought down a particular like someone says above. But without the context of miller v humberside police etc he didn't manage to get his perspective across that well. It's about the police acting outside thd law to silence certain opinions but not others. Its a serious sitayion in any democracy. So the work he has done is more serious than he made it sound.

She is a great speaker, very considered and thoughtful every time.

I agree - it's a shame that he didn't put his question across very well from the start - he tried in his 2nd question to her response but it was too late by then it sounded like the audience felt the same. "If you don't use it you"lll lose it" or something to that effect. He could have started with that and formed his question around that angle as well.

Thanks PP - I will listen to the longer version on BBC sounds

DameHelena · 02/12/2022 08:51

I admit I didn't know about Miller, but have just had a read about him and his case against Humberside Police. I actually feel happy with what he said and agree with some pps in thinking CNA's answer was a bit '#bekind'.
Obviously him saying 'I do not however accept the proposition that a person of one sex can biologically change to become the opposite sex.' is not comparable to 'Women are inferior' or 'Black people should be killed.'
And I agree with pps saying that social media is part of the real world and that CNA, with an assistant to handle hers for her, is coming at it from a position of privilege that can and should be considered and interrogated.

RoyalCorgi · 02/12/2022 09:08

I loved her answer to Harry Miller... it was very much - no, freedom of speech does not give you the right to be disagreeable just because you feel like it.

But it does, doesn't it? Otherwise it's not freedom of speech. I agree that it might not be desirable to just go round being unpleasant for the sake of it, but you still have the right to do it, and that right has to be defended.

DameHelena · 02/12/2022 09:17

RoyalCorgi · 02/12/2022 09:08

I loved her answer to Harry Miller... it was very much - no, freedom of speech does not give you the right to be disagreeable just because you feel like it.

But it does, doesn't it? Otherwise it's not freedom of speech. I agree that it might not be desirable to just go round being unpleasant for the sake of it, but you still have the right to do it, and that right has to be defended.

Yes, that's what I think about free speech. I do take the point though (if this was her point) that being antagonistic for its own sake might get you in trouble (as it did Harry M); but I also appreciate his point about 'use it or lose it'.