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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Chimamanda Ngozie Adichie interview with Zoe Williams

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irishfeminist · 28/11/2022 07:55

www.theguardian.com/books/2022/nov/28/chimamanda-ngozi-adichie-bbc-reith-lecture-freedom-truth-trans-rights

Good for her, refusing to back down. Williams is a woman from a wealthy background who went to an extremely expensive private school and Oxford (like most Guardian writers) who revels in the virtue of her luxury beliefs. She doesn't offer anything or argue anything new here and I hope it'll peak a few more people.

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FunnyTalks · 28/11/2022 09:52

If you find Zoë writing on a subject you know something about, it becomes increasingly clear she just pulls opinions out of her arse. She writes at the level of a conversation had at a bar while waiting to be served, with the same amount of research that entails. And considerably less scope for self reflection than a person two drinks in.

I don't like tearing down other women's work especially. I blame the Guardian just as much for allowing this standard of journalism (I've seen opinions backed up by reference to a single poorly liked tweet before). But Zoë epitomises class privilege by managing to hold onto that gig, she doesn't even realise how unworthy she is of landing this interview.

Kucinghitam · 28/11/2022 09:54

GCAcademic · 28/11/2022 09:52

Righteous People do not tell lies, tsk. They are telling "their truth".

Oops, I'll have to whip myself with 118-gender-coloured lanyards to make amends Grin

irishfeminist · 28/11/2022 09:54

Just to point out that Chimamanda also comes from a privileged background but has the intelligence and imagination to see outside it. It's what writers are supposed to do.

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BernardBlacksMolluscs · 28/11/2022 09:55

Ginmonkeyagain · 28/11/2022 09:49

A bit of a derail but it occurs to me that the original intent of "living as a woman" was a trial period as a precursor to surgery. So the person proposing to go on a trans journey (for want of a better word) can try out what it feels like practically and emotionally to be perceived as a woman nut family, friends and wider society before they commit to irreversable surgery. Sort of a "try before you buy" situation. Which makes sense as a safeguarding mechanism for people considering surgery.

So it is more like "presenting in a way that means society reads you as female," rather than literally living as a woman would. But somehow along the way this has come to be interpreted literally.

I mean I am a woman and the only living as a woman thing I have done today is take a birth control pill.

Having worked with a man doing the ‘living as a woman trial period thing’, I would say it’s more about finding out what it’s like to be perceived as trans. No one ever perceived him as a woman, but being perceived as trans is no walk in the park, and it’s sensible to mandate that people must experience this before they commit to surgery

Ginmonkeyagain · 28/11/2022 10:00

@BernardBlacksMolluscs Completely agree.

TanteRose · 28/11/2022 10:01

Saskihahaha · 28/11/2022 09:01

I think Emma Barnett's interview with Chimamanda was much better, but then I don't rate Williams:

www.bloomberg.com/news/videos/2022-11-11/chimamanda-ngozi-adichie-on-j-k-rowling-cancel-culture-and-beyonce

New to this site, so possibly this interview has already been posted. I suspect CNA is exasperated with the continuing questioning of her position on Transwomen. Barnett doesn't push it, and is respectful. Not so ZW.

I loved that interview!!

BellaAmorosa · 28/11/2022 10:15

TheGreatATuin · 28/11/2022 08:09

I have so much respect for Adichie and gain more every time I hear something. She's sharp, compassionate and willing to stand her ground, while not trying to shut down the other person from expressing their views.
Much like JKR, she is just an amazing role model for girls.
This interview is quite fascinating as Zoe Williams has very much come down on the TRA side of things.
I think the seminal point for me is when they are debating trans issues and Adichie says, "Not if you consider women’s views to be valid. This is what baffles me. Are there no such things as objective truth and facts?"
and Williams just writes "I'm not having that" and then adds her response.
The entire lecture is about respecting and allowing different voices and opinions.
That's what the Adichies of the world are asking for and the Williamses are just "I'm not having that"
Sums up the TRA side doesn't it?

💯

Rocksludge · 28/11/2022 10:16

irishfeminist · 28/11/2022 09:54

Just to point out that Chimamanda also comes from a privileged background but has the intelligence and imagination to see outside it. It's what writers are supposed to do.

she’s not got form for writing articles about ‘checking your privilege’ though. Unlike Williams.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/11/2022 10:17

Having worked with a man doing the ‘living as a woman trial period thing’, I would say it’s more about finding out what it’s like to be perceived as trans. No one ever perceived him as a woman, but being perceived as trans is no walk in the park, and it’s sensible to mandate that people must experience this before they commit to surgery.

I can see that, never thought about it like that before but it makes perfect sense.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/11/2022 10:18

Chimamanda is amazing. Was Williams really the best the Guardian could do?

mindwanderer · 28/11/2022 10:22

irishfeminist · 28/11/2022 09:54

Just to point out that Chimamanda also comes from a privileged background but has the intelligence and imagination to see outside it. It's what writers are supposed to do.

Privilege is subjective and should be contextualised. By Nigerian standards, yes.

PermanentTemporary · 28/11/2022 10:35

I need to read HF's interview with Margaret Atwood again - I remember HE'S views being very present.

WolverineBlueyy · 28/11/2022 10:40

MrsOvertonsWindow · 28/11/2022 09:52

For those interested in reading her views without a journalist's patronising prejudices being all over them, here's a good interview with Helen Rumbelow - share token for a Times article:

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/bf65e1f2-44be-11ed-8885-043c27446b97?shareToken=ee878d86c98034433f6a4ccdf5938f32

A very good piece. Interesting quote when asked about JKR: “I don’t want to talk about this and I’ll tell you why: it’s a subject which I have been a part of for quite a while in which it is easy for people to twist into what they want it to mean."

Et tu, Zoe Williams - who, when CNA similarly refused to be derailed, just went ahead and decided what she didn't want to tell her about must have been trans-related, giving ZW the spring board she needed to dive right into, erm, twisting it into what she wanted it to mean?

piedbeauty · 28/11/2022 10:43

donquixotedelamancha · 28/11/2022 08:27

I struggle with the arrogance of interviewing someone of CNA's stature and feeling you have to report what you said and your opinions as much as what she said.

Yup. Quite.

Looking forward to the Reith lecture. Should be very interesting!

beastlyslumber · 28/11/2022 10:48

donquixotedelamancha · 28/11/2022 08:27

I struggle with the arrogance of interviewing someone of CNA's stature and feeling you have to report what you said and your opinions as much as what she said.

Yes, that's very much what I felt about this.

WarriorN · 28/11/2022 10:52

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/11/2022 10:18

Chimamanda is amazing. Was Williams really the best the Guardian could do?

Hadley's left, Suzanne was hounded out, who's left?!

Maybe sonia will do a repost on Sunday

OldCrone · 28/11/2022 10:59

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 28/11/2022 09:23

Maybe Williams does just think that totally superficial looks are all that matters.

Well, to be fair, they were talking about appearence at the time. But her assumption that a tall handsome bearded smiling young man couldn't have been "living as a woman" is prejudiced. And it depends on a very narrow understanding of what "living as a woman" means - I guess that in her head it means "trying in every possible way to pass as a woman" but that's not what it means to all trans people, not by a long shot.

What makes her think that a man would would change his appearance in order to 'live as a woman'?

Has she never heard of Danielle Muscato or Alex Drummond?

ArabellaScott · 28/11/2022 10:59

'She is a commanding presence: flawless to look at, serene in her confidence, vivid and trenchant in her quest to smash every point and win every argument.'

Weird sentence construction. Anyway. Continuing to read.

ArabellaScott · 28/11/2022 11:01

'Ngozi Adichie didn’t get her reputation as a straight-talking provocateur from her novels.'

I'm sorry this is barely bloody legible.

ChateauMargaux · 28/11/2022 11:04

She said in the Times Article "“I don’t want to talk about this and I’ll tell you why: it’s a subject which I have been a part of for quite a while in which it is easy for people to twist into what they want it to mean. I’m writing about it and I want to wait until I’m done writing about it so that I’m using my own words, with thought.”...

yet ZW insists, several times.... give me an example.. 'CNA says she will not... the whole point of this discourse is that cancel culture is damaging yet ZW spends the entire interview looking for an offensive opinion to hang on CNA.

'So the next day I ask her straight out: what was this true thing that the accosting American hadn’t wanted her to say? “Something,” she says. “I will leave it there.” I suspect it was something to do with trans issues- - Zoe making assumptions..

ZW: 'This is the driving logic of her fear for free speech: that she can’t say biological sex is inalienable without sparking a storm.' CNA has been clear - she does not want this one topic to be the centre piece of her discussion about her fears for free speech.

The dialogue about 'living as a woman' descends into absurdity.. 'you can't say all women and threatened by trans women' - it is different from saying 'women's rights are threatened by trans rights'.

The article is peppered with: 'I'm not having that'.. 'she probably thinks', 'the paradox of her lecture', 'is that real though' , 'The word was that it would be a cat-among-the-pigeons moment' 'the subtext, I think, is to set a grenade off under some issue of the day.' 'It’s all a question of perspective, I guess.', 'I think the opposite is true'..

My understanding is that CNA is deliberately trying to take a wider perspective and is refusing to be drawn into limiting the discussion to one issue...

I LOVE her writing and I am so grateful that she has remained strong against the tsunami of pressure to conform to the trans narrative as so many others have done.

ChateauMargaux · 28/11/2022 11:06

And yes.. exactly who was 'trenchant in her quest to smash every point and win every argument'... she was determined not to be drawn and not to concede.. but it was ZW who seemed to want to smash and win and talked about a fight...

Abhannmor · 28/11/2022 11:10

The first Zoe piece I read was about being pregnant. Nowt wrong with that , it's an important subject. The last article I saw was about how awkward it is having a younger , pretty husband on your arm.

In between there were some OK writings. But yeah , she's no Suzanne Moore.

ArabellaScott · 28/11/2022 11:11

'But in combat, as she is in her prose, she’s exhilarating and I’m glad we had the conversation.'

How very gracious of you, Zoe.

Also - 'combat'?! You had a discussion, mate. 'Disagreement' is not going to cause you actual bodily harm.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 28/11/2022 11:27

@Ginmonkeyagain and @BernardBlacksMolluscs Those are insightful ways to think about "living as a woman", thank you both.

Has she never heard of Danielle Muscato or Alex Drummond?

Apparently not. And I agree with pp, Zoe Williams picked that fight herself.

Tidyspy · 28/11/2022 11:40

Zoe Williams has clearly not done her Gender Awareness Training - I sat through it at work and heard that we cannot tell someone's gender by looking at them, that some trans people do not change how they look or dress and this should not be a requirement, "for example some women have beards and you must not question someone's stated gender or they will feel unsafe".