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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

School Curriculum - A personal win

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InterestingUsernameTBC · 25/11/2022 09:22

18 months ago I first asked for a copy of the resources my child's new secondary school would be using for teaching gender identity in PSHE. I asked one main question - What are you doing to protect the children in your care from becoming part of the growing numbers of detransitioners harmed by gender identity affirmation?

After numerous emails, a couple of phone calls and several in-person meetings I have now had confirmation of the new PSHE curriculum.

Resources are drawn heavily from Transgender Trend. It is made clear that not everyone believes in, or considers they have, a gender identity. Cis and queer will be taught as controversial terms which should not be applied to others. Gender will be taught as social and cultural expectations placed on individuals because of their sex. Gender identity will not be casually slipped into other subjects as impartiality on the subject will be impressed on all subject teachers.

And what I'm most pleased with - No child will be able to self-declare a trans identity. Any child questioning their 'gender' will be referred to safeguarding for appropriate clinical referrals to be made.

A big thank you to the posters on this board for providing information and links and giving me the confidence to challenge this and showing how important it is.

And a reminder that we can all make a difference by speaking out. I have been a lone voice on this matter with the school and it has taken ages but I have had a huge influence that will have impacted not just the 1500 pupils attending the school now but future intakes too, and all the staff who will now feel empowered to speak up, whether they are full-on gender critical or just a little concerned about things.

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StellaAndCrow · 27/11/2022 14:38

Yes, as ever, they don't actually give a damn about children. And of course they don't follow the suicide reporting guidelines.

DameMaud · 27/11/2022 14:44

@pattihews . Pls can you point me in the direction of the stonewall link re Cross dressing. Can't find it! Agreed. Very important and useful.

InterestingUsernameTBC · 27/11/2022 15:11

DameMaud · 26/11/2022 21:35

Was it IW by any chance ? Can you link Kittens?
(Can I get an autograph Interesting?)

Autograph, lol. You're funny DameMaud.

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InterestingUsernameTBC · 27/11/2022 15:27

Princessglittery · 27/11/2022 09:23

twitter.com/setoacnna/status/1596259452033896451?s=61&t=wcCpe9GPGPOhJeuS1bCDxA

@InterestingUsernameTBC I hope the link above is the link @KittensNotMittens was referring to.

Some tweets from that thread:

"Any child that deviates from accepted norms will be reeducated."
Erm, where does my post even hint at that!? That's exactly the opposite of my view.

If a cis girl identifies as a girl, we should refer them to safeguarding
??

This has proper upset me. I know it's 50:50 whether it's true or not, but the potential that some unknown 'sensitive' kid is going to be destroyed by this hateful rhetoric is awful
Some sensitive kid... destroyed, by what? Caring adults who say, 'look, there's nothing wrong with you, embrace your individuality.'

I can't believe the crankery of going around asking "how will you protect my not even trans child from becoming a detransitioner"?
What do they think the process is that leads to someone being a detransitioner?

Honestly, I just can't twist my mind round far enough to follow some of this logic.

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InterestingUsernameTBC · 27/11/2022 15:31

DameMaud · 27/11/2022 14:44

@pattihews . Pls can you point me in the direction of the stonewall link re Cross dressing. Can't find it! Agreed. Very important and useful.

It's in their glossary of terms:

www.stonewall.org.uk/list-lgbtq-terms

Trans
An umbrella term to describe people whose gender is not the same as, or does not sit comfortably with, the sex they were assigned at birth.

Trans people may describe themselves using one or more of a wide variety of terms, including (but not limited to) transgender, transsexual, gender-queer (GQ), gender-fluid, non-binary, gender-variant, crossdresser, genderless, agender, nongender, third gender, bi-gender, trans man, trans woman,trans masculine, trans feminine and neutrois.

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DameMaud · 27/11/2022 15:35

InterestingUsernameTBC · 27/11/2022 15:31

It's in their glossary of terms:

www.stonewall.org.uk/list-lgbtq-terms

Trans
An umbrella term to describe people whose gender is not the same as, or does not sit comfortably with, the sex they were assigned at birth.

Trans people may describe themselves using one or more of a wide variety of terms, including (but not limited to) transgender, transsexual, gender-queer (GQ), gender-fluid, non-binary, gender-variant, crossdresser, genderless, agender, nongender, third gender, bi-gender, trans man, trans woman,trans masculine, trans feminine and neutrois.

Oh yes! Don't know how I missed that. Thanks Interesting.

Those tweets!! 🙄

pattihews · 27/11/2022 15:46

InterestingUsernameTBC · 27/11/2022 15:31

It's in their glossary of terms:

www.stonewall.org.uk/list-lgbtq-terms

Trans
An umbrella term to describe people whose gender is not the same as, or does not sit comfortably with, the sex they were assigned at birth.

Trans people may describe themselves using one or more of a wide variety of terms, including (but not limited to) transgender, transsexual, gender-queer (GQ), gender-fluid, non-binary, gender-variant, crossdresser, genderless, agender, nongender, third gender, bi-gender, trans man, trans woman,trans masculine, trans feminine and neutrois.

Thanks for supplying the link. One you start introducing the concept of AGP people very quickly start to think more carefully.

EveEveander · 01/12/2022 21:01

Great thread

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