I think both sides could do with trying to see it from the other perspective, and maybe seeing part the ridiculous caricatures that people build up in their minds of today on the other side of this.
Pro life doesn't mean sexist woman hater, who wants to control women's bodies.
Pro choice doesn't mean they agree with killing babies.
We see the caricatures, because it's easy to demonize them. I'm pro life, but I do get the other side. I get that it's bloody unfair that women get pregnant that don't want to (and some women desperately want to but can't). I get that being forced by biology into having a child is unfair, and that men often get off lightly, and it's often left to us. I do feel that rage. It's our bodies that are left disfigured and broken, our careers that are often left in tatters. I don't get how anyone can look at a near viable fetus and think it's nothing, but I do get the enormous sacrifices as women that we make, and the horror of that being forced on someone.
I'm a liberal, gender critical feminist, not particularly religious, anti death penalty, pro a good welfare state, pro same sex marriage, reasonably pro drug liberalisation. I'm not pro life because I want to control women, but because I believe the unborn acquire a moral right to exist at some stage, and should be protected.
I think most people are somewhere in the middle of the debate, seeing t need for abortion provision, but with time limits. Something that gives the woman the opportunity to end a pregnancy, but recognises increasing personhood by the end of pregnancy. Both sides pretending that you have to be at one extreme is harmful, and doesnt reflect how people think.
If we could take some of the anger, and name calling out of this, maybe both sides could pour their passion into science, to ensure that every pregnancy conceived is a wanted one.