Here's the thing about this kind of point Mishi. When I find myself agreeing with right-wingers, lets take Matt Walsh as an example. It actually does make me stop and examine how that has happened. How is it that I now listen to a man like Walsh, someone who I am such a polar opposite to on many stances, and now find myself agreeing with him on quite a lot? So yes, I examine that. What does it mean for me that I agree with this right-winger. Does it make me a 'baddie' like you are implying. I really do all that introspection that you and your ilk, seem to think we don't. And I conclude that no, in this instance he he right and my former 'allies' are wrong.
But the thing is, it doesn't just stop there. I'm a human, we're naturally quite tribal. So my 'examination' goes beyond just the issues I agree with him on. I start thinking, what else from my old alliances might I disagree on if I delve deeper? What else from my old 'enemies' do I now agree with. I think about abortion/reproductive rights. I think about same sex marriage and parenting. I have found myself really quite opposed to surrogacy, where before I thought it was benign to positive. I'm still very pro-choice, pro-same-sex marriage and parenting though.
But those last three are very deeply held beliefs for me. I know, as an Irish person who has engaged in two important referendum campaigns that a lot of the public support for those three things, can be quite tenuous. We had to convince undecided to our side and they came to us because we seemed to be sensible and compassionate, and most people want to be sensible and compassionate. The other side were fearmongers who talked about ridiculous things happening on a fantasy slippery slope. Now that slippery slope is somehow happening and the sensible and compassionate people are not "our" side, they are strident, bullying, defending the slippery slope. And the sensible and compassionate people are the social conservatives. What the fuck do you think all of the people we brought to 'our' side of issues like abortion rights and same-sex couple rights are likely to do? I'm pretty certain that an awful fucking lot of them will start to align much more fully with sensible and compassionate sounding Matt Walsh. They will change their minds to a much more socially conservative stance. I've seen it happen with people online for the last few years and I've started seeing more recently with people I know in real life.
People like you are playing a damn dangerous game with the very real equality that women and people who are same sex attracted have achieved. Stop pushing away the central majority.