The culture in NZ in general is quite different to the UK where you question and fight for yourselves more. There they tend to accept things, the team of 5 million isn’t a sweet innocent phrase to use to fight a virus, it’s used to control.
True and not true at the same time.
They key fact about NZ is that it's population is low and, outside Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch, low density.
It's a country where a consensus forms quickly.
This does make for a certain conformity of outlook, which was part of the reason why our covid response was so effective. I can't say I care at all that a few antivaxxers found this oppressive, but it can be uncomfortable outside the consensus, whatever it is.
Regarding trans rights, my observation is that there is no consensus yet. Government and business are completely sold on the idea but my observation is that most people (leastways over a certain age) are not. The trans rights lobby have been very effective at getting the people who matter onside, but it would take something quite limited, ie, National or ACT making rethinking trans rights a policy at next year's elections and things could change very fast.
Interesting comments about fa'afafine. I think the point to bear in mind is that Samoan culture now is strongly (and traditionally) Christian, and that will have had a massive effect on what being fa'afafine means.
I've also seen it said that pre-colonial Maori culture was trans friendly. The problem is that, I suspect, no one really knows. Furthermore there's nothing new about Maori culture being interpreted and co-opted for the whitefellas' own reasons,. Also, after being demonized for a very long time, there is a trend to promote trad Maori society and it's but polite to ask whether this is being accurately done.