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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

“The only way I can describe this is that it’s like grief. It’s like something has been ripped away.”

92 replies

inkjet · 25/08/2022 10:01

Tw react to only women being allowed in women’s rugby.

www.telegraph.co.uk/rugby-union/2022/08/24/trans-women-rugby-cleaned-5ft-4in-girls-how-can-dangerous/

As Helen Staniland comments underneath “This article will have helped thousands more people see the issue. Very glad ages and photos were included.”

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LK1972 · 25/08/2022 12:24

BryanAdamsLeftAnkle · 25/08/2022 12:16

How can I read this. A pop up is there stopping me asking me to subscribe.

I've just registered for free and can read the article.

Datun · 25/08/2022 12:25

RoyalCorgi · 25/08/2022 11:58

Why is the Telegraph publishing this shit?

I wonder if they're just being smart about it.

The comment section is just a reflection of what we say on here. Deluded, or cheating.

We all know that the best argument we can make is to let transactivists speak. I guess the Telegraph are doing just that. It's certainly not the evoking the slightest bit of sympathy if the comments are anything to go by.

Abhannmor · 25/08/2022 12:33

Fenlandia · 25/08/2022 11:25

How many 54 year old women can still play full contact team sports with opponents, in some cases, who are 30 years younger than them? Childbirth, menopause and caring responsibilities (which still largely fall on women's shoulders) are 3 pretty big obstacles.

Not many 54 year old blokes can play on either. Unless they have the advantage of playing versus women.

Heartening to read the comments by men. Doesn't seem that long since rugby was the last bastion of male chauvinism. Now there are gay players. And racism is not tolerated by either supporters or players.

But the TRAs will no doubt try to paint the RFU as reactionary bigots all the same.

54321abcd · 25/08/2022 12:33

picklemewalnuts · 25/08/2022 10:16

The comments are robust.

The Telegraph comments on this issue are always 99.9% in favour of sanity and the importance of biological sex.

Firty · 25/08/2022 12:35

achillestoes · 25/08/2022 11:20

We’re grieving too. For our words, our rights, our privacy. Welcome to the club, mate.

This.

Grieving for a world where women didn’t get fired for saying that sex exists.

Grieving for a world where children weren’t taught sexist stereotypes at school and told to get genital surgery and take drugs for life if they don’t match those stereotypes.

Grieving for a world where self-loathing was not celebrated, and delusion wasn’t unquestioningly “supported”.

Grieving for sanity.

WomaninBoots · 25/08/2022 12:45

where I’m reminded by institutions that I’m not ‘woman’ enough,” says Curtiss. “It’s really hard to quantify exactly what that means

🤔is it now?

ScreamingMeMe · 25/08/2022 12:51

NOBODY says TW are "not woman enough". There isn't a scale of womanhood, despite how much they try ti drag people with DSDs into it.

EttaKett · 25/08/2022 12:53

StopStartStop · 25/08/2022 11:11

Just made me angry. Really angry. Fucking entitled bastards, all of them. Sod off. Play in the men's teams because you're a fucking man and the rest of them are fucking men. Men, I tell you. Those that are not women. 😡

Well said!

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 25/08/2022 12:56

StopStartStop · 25/08/2022 11:11

Just made me angry. Really angry. Fucking entitled bastards, all of them. Sod off. Play in the men's teams because you're a fucking man and the rest of them are fucking men. Men, I tell you. Those that are not women. 😡

Yep, this comment sums it up

VaddaABeetch · 25/08/2022 13:02

There’s something particularly creepy about wanting to play with women half your age. As if Fitzgerald Is ‘one of the girls’.

women his age are menopausal, not lithe & young.

ArabellaScott · 25/08/2022 13:06

Photo caption: "Julie Curtiss (with the ball) came out as trans in 2016"

ArabellaScott · 25/08/2022 13:08

'“I personally don’t think that the people who are running around and trying to influence various sports bodies have women’s sport at heart,” insists Curtiss. “I don’t think any of them are particularly interested in women’s sport, ultimately. I think their main thing is to try to systematically go through each of the sectors of society where we want to exist and kick us out.”'

My main thing, personally, is women and girls' safety and right to a fair competition.

BruisedSkies · 25/08/2022 13:11

I don’t get why the men aren’t embarrassed to be so obviously bigger and stronger. Like if I went to sports day and raced against the kids and then got really excited when I won. It would be so cringe. How can they not see this?

FrancescaContini · 25/08/2022 13:13

picklemewalnuts · 25/08/2022 10:16

The comments are robust.

Thank God

MagpiePi · 25/08/2022 13:30

BruisedSkies · 25/08/2022 13:11

I don’t get why the men aren’t embarrassed to be so obviously bigger and stronger. Like if I went to sports day and raced against the kids and then got really excited when I won. It would be so cringe. How can they not see this?

Exactly!

The phrase 'act with the confidence of a mediocre white man' keeps coming in to my mind for some reason.

InsertPunHere · 25/08/2022 13:32

“I don’t have an advantage” says 54 and 52 year old males playing against young women.

Can they not hear the contradiction? The only reason tw can keep up is because tw have been through make puberty and their been through female puberty.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 25/08/2022 13:36

So many good comments - on here and under the article. And yes to the press giving a platform to self absorbed, self pitying individuals determined on trashing women's rights, privacy and safety. Because all time they whinge, they expose their excessive levels of narcissism and the world goes Shock

FreudayNight · 25/08/2022 13:37

ArabellaScott · 25/08/2022 13:08

'“I personally don’t think that the people who are running around and trying to influence various sports bodies have women’s sport at heart,” insists Curtiss. “I don’t think any of them are particularly interested in women’s sport, ultimately. I think their main thing is to try to systematically go through each of the sectors of society where we want to exist and kick us out.”'

My main thing, personally, is women and girls' safety and right to a fair competition.

Yes, as always, the accusations are admissions

RoyalCorgi · 25/08/2022 13:37

I love this article because it hoists this transwoman by her own petard. It's absolutely clear from the photos and ages what the problem is but the Genderists can't call it transphobic.

It does (hoist her etc), but I don't know if that was the intention. The article seems very sympathetic. It could quite easily have been published in the Guardian.

Anyway, as everyone has pointed out, the comments aren't having any truck with it, so that's all good.

SquirrelSoShiny · 25/08/2022 13:44

Any way of sharing? I can't read it.

StillGoingStrongToday · 25/08/2022 13:51

That was a terrible interview. Why on Earth did the interviewer not ask the obvious question which is;

”You’ve spoken very passionately about why you believe that the science is wrong, and that you, as a male, do not have an unfair advantage, so why do you not play in a male team?”

QNC · 25/08/2022 13:55

For those who can't read The Telegraph, the trick is to open the article and allow it to load up to the point where the article is visible, but stop it (press the cross on the address bar) before it has time to hide most of the article under the offer to subscribe. It's a delicate art, and I ususally temporarily turn off my WiFi once I've got the article too, to make sure it doesn't reload the hidden version...

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 25/08/2022 14:01

FOJN · 25/08/2022 11:11

Fitzgerald, a proud trans woman, is mourning the loss of rugby.

Hmm loss? Fitzgerald played for years before identifying as a woman, I don't think the RFU's decision has removed that option for Fitzgerald.

The comments on blood test results are interesting. Fitzgerald quotes the upper limit for female haemoglobin correctly but then cites the lower level for men (138 g/L) as evidence that Fitzgerald's levels are way below female levels. The lower level for women is 121h/L and Fitzgerald's level is slightly below that but not way below.

WRT testosterone Fitzgerald is a medical miracle given that the best suppression which can be achieved in prostate cancer patients is 0.7 nmol/l. I would imagine an unrecordable testosterone level in a biological male would be of great interest to doctors.

I've said this on other occasions but if, for some reason, somebody asked me how to lower the T reading in a blood test, I'd advise:

  • fasting or very low calorie intake for a couple of days
  • short abstention from physical training.

If someone asked about a slightly low RBC count, I might wonder if they had over-hydrated before the test. I'm underwhelmed by individual physiological markers.

Helpful table here:
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK2263/table/ch1.T1/

I think a number of us would share Curtiss' outrage for secrecy (Hello Denton and Press for Change) although for different reasons.

“I find it extremely unlikely that the RFU wasn’t already having these deliberations. If they were having them, why did they choose not to engage? They seem to have done this entire thing secret-squirrel.”

She is particularly critical of the “thorough review of scientific evidence” that the RFU carried out as part of its “precautionary approach” to prioritise safety, and questions why it is not rugby-specific. She tried in vain to engage with the RFU ahead of the vote, urging the governing body to oversee clinical studies on trans female players over the upcoming season. But her proposal was met by a wall of silence which, she insists, is telling of a wider issue at play.
“I personally don’t think that the people who are running around and trying to influence various sports bodies have women’s sport at heart,” insists Curtiss. “I don’t think any of them are particularly interested in women’s sport, ultimately. I think their main thing is to try to systematically go through each of the sectors of society where we want to exist and kick us out.”

I couldn't agree more that, left to their own devices (Hello, British Cycling), there are several sectors of society and sports bodies that find the existence of women inconvenient and want to "kick us out".

Mochudubh · 25/08/2022 14:05

Let me get my...

“The only way I can describe this is that it’s like grief. It’s like something has been ripped away.”
FlorettaB · 25/08/2022 14:08

’How many 54 year old women can still play full contact team sports with opponents, in some cases, who are 30 years younger than them?’

That ^