'For the great, great majority, gender-based language, thought, concepts and social convention are really part of what we are – just as central to our personalities as the identity-convictions of trans people are to them. It isn’t a question of thoughtlessness.
That trans people experience rejection as a consequence of our civilisation’s social recognition and distinctions of sex and gender does not confer on them an absolute human right to erase gendered thought and language on a widespread basis.'
Interesting thought - most often feminists come from an angle of being critical of gender, but here is someone (sorry, I'm not up on Irish politics so I don't really know much about him) positing that for many people their desire to maintain 'gender based' language is equally as legitimate as a desire to avoid or erase it.
www.irishtimes.com/opinion/2022/07/20/trans-rights-a-question-of-reasonableness-and-common-sense/