Ive interviewed for small firms where i have been told (all in the last 12 years)
They nearly didnt interview me because my name didnt sound british but they would be willing to continue the interview because I looked white enough
Did i have children or plan to have children when working there
The director is a bit handsy but just make sure you arent alone in the office with him and you will be fine (i really wish this last one was a joke)
These are the jobs i havent taken
The jobs in no hr dept firms i have taken I have had
A director tell me how he wanted to rape me in great detail, I had to leave because there was no one I could complain to
Numerous sexist comments made, comments made about my body, whether I was worth fucking
Being told that the sexist comments would stop when a colleague retired (he was late 50s with no plans to retire so I was expected to put up with it for many years)
Being refused a reasonable adjustment for my diability on more tha one occasion (special shoes which arent 'uniform')
Having rasict comments made to me and managers saying the colleagues were joking
Being banned from having naturally curly hair down because it looks unprofessional and being told I have to straighten it
(This is more than one workplace)
I will never ever work for a small firm without a HR team again. Sexist and racist comments arent made because people are worried HR will find out. I can apply for jobs without worrying my surname will immediately put them off. I dont have to worry about straightening my hair before an interview. I dont even have to mention my disability to a manager, i just log it on my interview form and the HR system and unless I need additional adjustments when it flares up (rarer now i work from home) it never needs to be mentioned again. Im in a team of men and women from a variety of countries and a variety of backgrounds, several of whom are neurodiverse and our workplace accomodates our needs
Hearing someone casually suggest stripping away a department that makes it comfortable, safe and easier for me to go to work is chilling
By all means push back on trans inclusivity if it is causing safeguarding issues like mixed toilets, or if transwomen are getting jobs or awards meant for women etc, I get it.
But some of us actually need a bit of inclusion thanks