Jaime really does not get it!
"claiming that our lives, our identities, our feelings, are simply hypotheticals to be discussed and disagreed with is inaccurate and harmful."
No, kiddo. Your thoughts and feelings belong to you - as for everyone. (Although people may question you about them. And if you aren't open to other people's ideas, you're limiting yourself a lot)
But your actions, including speech affect other people. So - like everyone else in society - you are restricted by laws intended to balance everyone's rights and needs. And those laws and practices are absolutely up for debate because they materially affect everyone.
Love the University's response
We are committed to fostering a welcoming, inclusive and supportive environment for our whole community, where there is no place for any form of discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity. [ie all the stuff everyone agrees on]
We also remain steadfast in our commitment to freedom of expression and academic freedom within the bounds of the law, and our own Dignity and Respect Policy. Given the size of our community, it is inevitable that the ideas of different members will conflict. We encourage respectful debate and discussion whenever there are differences of view or opinion.
Perfect.
Have to admit, I've been starting to wonder whether there are any Unis left which I feel OK with DD going to when she reaches that age. Glad that Edinburgh is tentatively back on the list (depending on what happens with Scottish law in the next few years)