It's a very low key local running race, neither of us are usually contenders, but a combination of circumstances meant the field was such that we finished 3rd and 4th.
The prize is a bottle of cheap wine, it's not about that.
I know her to chat to at races and I like her. It's not common knowledge that she's trans, she enters races as a woman. She is very masculine to look at, but TBH, until recently I thought she was an unfortunate woman, I had no idea.
So in the scheme of things it doesn't matter, but it does....?
Should I "do" anything? What?
Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
I was beaten to third place in a running race by a trans woman
Athleticpotential · 12/05/2022 07:06
RitaFaircloughsWig · 14/05/2022 19:26
I think we all know attitudes to trans people are still pretty hostile
I think most people don't give a shit about what trans people do in their private life. What they DO feel hostile about is when this small group of people want everything changed for them, to accommodate their wants and needs which they seem to think are more important than anyone else's - whose rights are infringed? Women's - women who are biologically born a female , not assessed at birth and all this other shite that is spouted.
OwningAllMyMistakes · 15/05/2022 18:33
Well I haven’t read anything quite as petty as this in a while but Mumsnet sure knows how to do petty on a petty scale of 1-10 it’s a 10.
if it was a fun run for a charity and not even anything serious you know how to kill the fun and take the F out of fun.
why are you even bothered? is it because you only got 3rd place and was surprised that the person involved even bothered to run and all you got was a cheap bottle of plonk.
This is hardly the olympics and no one’s taking any athletics medals or places away from anyone ?
would you rather that instead of someone entering the fun run just stands and watches from the sidelines because everyone’s too transphobic for her to even take part.
if you talk to the person involved and got on then why are you afraid of coming across as transphobic & if she was to even read this thread how do you think it would look for you?
this is nothing more than mean & spiteful over a 3rd place and a bottle of plonk.
i don’t think your a very nice person at all & what would be something to be brushed off and have a laugh about is a thread all about trans in sport and all that next thing it’ll be the Q angle and how very trans person is stealing medals and places from people that don’t even enter sports or compete 😩
RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 15/05/2022 18:53
this is nothing more than mean & spiteful over a 3rd place and a bottle of plonk
youve made a mean and spiteful post and theres not even a bottle of wine in the mix!
Artichokeleaves · 15/05/2022 19:13
Ooh it's a drive by scolding, with no actual reading of the thread.
What a surprise.
Nellodee · 16/05/2022 07:26
Peregrina, I'm not sure how Parkrun offering transwomen the opportunity to have their times unlisted is asking women to solve male violence.
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GenderAtheist · 17/05/2022 09:01
I’m very confused about the idea that’s it’s a risk for Transwomen to compete as men because they would need to be open about being trans. Whereas if they compete as women , their trans status would be secret.
I have never yet see a man in a running shorts and vest who didn’t look like a man. Regardless of whether they identify as a man, a woman or something else. (I have never asked another athlete how they identify so of course I don’t know.)
I fully accept the OPs account that she did not know the other athlete was a man, but that’s not been my experience.
So Its not that Transwomen enter womens events to be secret. They are almost always very clearly men.
A trans woman entering a mens 10k would blend in with everyone else. A transwoman entering a womens 10k would stand out a mile. If they were a competent runner they would get lots and lots of attention, because they would make a very good time and everyone would wonder how a woman they had never heard of with no running experience had suddenly made such a good time.
Its definitely not the thing to do if you just want to quietly run a race like everyone else.
So I can only assume that Transwomen enter womens races to win prizes / times or for personal validation reasons. But it’s really REALLY not to be private.
And it’s not to keep safe and avoid getting beaten up in the middle of their local Parkrun / 10k / half marathon .
No one running knows that the man running ahead of them is a Transwomen until they look at the results. It’s not a safety issue.
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