gay men are noticing more what lesbians have been saying for years, about males in lesbian spaces, dating, the 'genital preferences are transphobic' narrative.
Depending on how much medical and surgical treatment the transmen or NBs have had, it's possibly quite cheerful that they experiencing desire. It's miserable for them that it's oriented towards people who do not reciprocate.
Nonetheless, given how rapidly and astonishingly successful some advocacy has been in this area (sports; prisons; erasing women as a sex class; pronouns; shifting language around healthcare, policy-making, education) does anybody want to take bets on a widespread drive to problematise the nature of desire?