It is a terrible thing but
A) perhaps starting with an attacking tone, diminishing the other conversations here and telling us we should be discussing this instead, is not a way to win hearts and minds. Let me say it stronger. How bloody dare you try and police our discussions, limit our freedom to discuss what we want, and criticise us.
And
B) ‘Here’ is the place MNHQ established to lock away our dreadful conversations about sex and gender. It’s not where we are meant to discuss other topics. There is Feminism Chat for that.
and
c) why don’t you start by telling us what you are doing about it? I manage both to be a pro choice activist and an active discusser of other things! Who knew women could multi task.