@MissLucyEyelesbarrow - agree, seems to me that saying "no" is regarded as being transphobic.
Saying "there is no evidence that this is effective" or "I do not have the expertise, I will refer you to a specialist" or "I do not think this treatment is appropriate for you" or "sometimes it is better to do nothing than to rush into something" is good care - difficult to deliver and it requires skill to build a therapeutic relationship and communicate the "why" so the patient buys in...but it's what GPs do daily for all sorts of people with all sorts of conditions.
Trans people being told "no" is not transphobic. Treating trans people with unproven medicine, without expertise, without a diagnosis - well, that would do harm. Harming trans people is transphobic.
Perhaps the solution here is for the trans community to reduce their expectations and have a little faith that most of society wants them to be well and happy. which would mean changing the narrative from SW et al