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Labour MP says women don't have penises

69 replies

MalagaNights · 29/03/2022 11:18

At last.

She was a bit hesitant but she said it.

She may need to know she has our support as they will go after her.

Thank you Siobhan McDonagh

twitter.com/talkRADIO/status/1508722014365884416?t=iI5Lsy38vWA49elxMpSKdA&s=19

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VestofAbsurdity · 29/03/2022 12:05

It's a start but I suspect she thinks that if a man has his penis removed then he is a woman for all intents and purposes which he isn't and it is fucking insulting to both men and women.

A women is not a surgically or cosmetically altered man ffs.

Swayingpalmtrees · 29/03/2022 12:06

It is a start at least. A hesitant start, but one that will hopefully shine a light to others.

GroggyLegs · 29/03/2022 12:19

She's scared. She knows exactly what comes of being a gender heretic.

So what if she still holds - or rather, expresses in public - some wonky beliefs? She gets the really important parts & was non-committal at best on the other bits.

She she showed 100% more consideration for women than most of the labour party.

doeadeeer · 29/03/2022 12:22

Have you seen the poll results?!?!

Labour MP says women don't have penises
AlsoNotAGirl · 29/03/2022 12:22

@tabbycatstripy

'I disagree, she went round in circles, she said she thinks they can become women when they transition.'

I don't have a problem with the 'for most intents and purposes' point of view. I don't literally think anyone changes sex but I accept that some people who have had surgery have gone through as much of a sex change as it's possible to go through. I don't actually mind a person who has had reassignment surgery sharing toilets and so on. I think it's about 800 people.

The problem for me is that we're not allowed (legally) to exclude on that distinction. We're only allowed to rule on natal sex.

How do we identify which males have had their penis removed?

What about the women who do mind?

GroggyLegs · 29/03/2022 12:26

I believe Monty's set off a siren.

Swayingpalmtrees · 29/03/2022 12:27

Let me think how sponsored that particular poll?

LeftFootForward · 29/03/2022 12:27

At the risk of sounding cynical all I can see is someone trying to undo some of the damage Labour has done to it's self over this issue and she's not doing it very well.

littlbrowndog · 29/03/2022 12:28

Imagine me telling my kids in 15 years time that people believed that women had penis.

Bonkers. Batshit bonkers

LeftFootForward · 29/03/2022 12:30

@doeadeeer

Have you seen the poll results?!?!
But you have to put those results in context. The trans community live out much of their lives on social media like Twitter because that's where they can validate each other.

I don't doubt there is a huge amount of bias in that poll!!

tabbycatstripy · 29/03/2022 12:31

AlsoNot:

Exactly, that's the issue. I say I think X but I don't mind Y, then the argument comes back that it would be unkind to establish Y so I have to accept Z.

But no, I go back to X. If we can't establish who has had surgery, then I have to say no males at all.

Shehasadiamondinthesky · 29/03/2022 12:34

I've noticed everyone is becoming very aggressive about this issue on my facebook - people who have been friends for years posting things like - if you don't believe transgender women are actually women then do me a favour and unfriend me.
These are people around my age - 50's and 60's not youngsters.
So it's ok to cancel people with a differing opinion from yourself is it?
I'm just getting sick of it all.

ChiswickFlo · 29/03/2022 12:38

#bekind
Actually means
#bequiet

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 29/03/2022 12:41

@doeadeeer

Have you seen the poll results?!?!
I did but @LeftFootForward is right.

Twitter is the place they go to vilify people who think differently and praise those who agree with them.

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 29/03/2022 12:51

@Somanysocks

I disagree, she went round in circles, she said she thinks they can become women when they transition.
She can only think that if she's purposefully neither googled nor had a conversation with somebody sensible and well-versed in the disinformation/misinformation in this arena.

Both of those are active choices.

happydappy2 · 29/03/2022 13:29

Julia HB is brilliant on this subject. The MP was too vague...there is not hatred on both sides, there is mounting horror from concerned women that single sex spaces are being dismantled, our daughters are being forced to compete against males in sports and normal safeguarding is being ignored because of an ideology. (Girl Guides for starters.) The potential for men to pretend to be transsexuals, to access womens 'single sex safe spaces' is the problem. The fact that the law recognises male bodied adults as women, is the problem-the GRA has to be repealed. There really is no middle ground here. Men should never have been told they could alleviate their disphoria by pretending to be a woman-there has to be a better treatment for them. Expand the bandwidth of being a man-don't pretend humans can change sex.

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 29/03/2022 13:33

@Shehasadiamondinthesky

I've noticed everyone is becoming very aggressive about this issue on my facebook - people who have been friends for years posting things like - if you don't believe transgender women are actually women then do me a favour and unfriend me. These are people around my age - 50's and 60's not youngsters. So it's ok to cancel people with a differing opinion from yourself is it? I'm just getting sick of it all.
I wonder if there needs to be an unwritten response of:

One of these days you will realise the full disinformation and consequences of what you're espousing. I am here so you know that you have the option of a golden bridge on that day and not just the choice of doubling down in pursuit of the hobgoblin of consistency.

VestofAbsurdity · 29/03/2022 13:43

@happydappy2

Julia HB is brilliant on this subject. The MP was too vague...there is not hatred on both sides, there is mounting horror from concerned women that single sex spaces are being dismantled, our daughters are being forced to compete against males in sports and normal safeguarding is being ignored because of an ideology. (Girl Guides for starters.) The potential for men to pretend to be transsexuals, to access womens 'single sex safe spaces' is the problem. The fact that the law recognises male bodied adults as women, is the problem-the GRA has to be repealed. There really is no middle ground here. Men should never have been told they could alleviate their disphoria by pretending to be a woman-there has to be a better treatment for them. Expand the bandwidth of being a man-don't pretend humans can change sex.
Couldn't agree more.

It's appalling that the GRA was ever introduced, the reduction of women to stereotypes and the insistence that a surgically or cosmetically altered man is somehow a woman and can have a female maker on his Birth Certificate shows exactly what those drafting it and implementing it thought and think of women.

DomesticatedZombie · 29/03/2022 13:46

Thank you, Siobhan. She is listening, she is trying to hear what women are saying, she is trying to be fair. I hope she keeps thinking.

(and thank you Julia for being brilliant on this, too).

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 29/03/2022 14:28

Labour as a party are making their stance clear. Individual members can pay feeble lip-service to the contrary as much as they wish; it makes little overall difference and as long as the bigger picture of the party in general claims not to know what an adult human female is, and has a leader making ridiculous assertions about who is and isn't a woman, not one candidate will ever be getting my vote.

Like the PP above, I'm sick of women's very pressing and serious issues (HUGE numbers of VAWG and murders of women simply for being female), rugswept whilst this navel-gazing bollocks (all-but literally in some cases) takes precedent as one of the most urgent issues of our times. Those statistics - and the fact that the 'Counting Dead Women' originator is receiving death threads simply for doing as her hashtag states - show very clearly who is amongst the most oppressed, abused groups in our society.

It is NOT MtoF trans people, and right now I'd rather stick pins in my eyes than vote for any party pandering to this BS.

DomesticatedZombie · 29/03/2022 14:49

Transcript.

Julia Hartley-Brewer and Siobhan McDonagh

JHB: your party leader and an awful lot of your fellow MPs seem to struggle with knowing what the difference is between a man and a woman. I’m pretty sure you do know the difference.
Whether or not men have cervixes or whether or as we discovered yesterday some questioning on the radio station of Keir Starmer, whether or not he thinks women can have a penis and still be women. Do you struggle between telling the difference between a man and a woman?

SMcD: I think a woman is a female born adult. I do think there are people who are born in one gender and feel they are in the other and my heart goes out to them and they’re on a journey perhaps to make a change but I just think this debate is so hot and full of hatred that we can’t have a sensible discussion about it

JHB: where s the hatred coming from?

SMcD: it comes from people who strongly feel that there is no such thing as sex and only gender and on the other side from people who want to provoke an argument in order to get away from the issues that are really troubling people

JHB: - you think all the women like JKR, like Sharon Davis, people like myself that are just saying ‘can we establish that everyone understands the difference between man and women and why those differences are recognised in law and safe spaces etc. etc’. that’s not provoking and argument, that’s not coming from hatred that’s coming from a concern that well - women being something other than a figment of men’s imagination on a Wednesday afternoon. but also women’s safety, does it not.

I don’t think it’s a laughing matter; I think the idea that a woman is anyone who says they’re a woman when they feel like a woman – I find that quite … scary, do you not?

SMcD I do think, Julia, you must know, you’ve been involved in this game long enough that there are lots of people who are provoking an argument because they want to create a divide.

JHB I only see that on the other side

SMcD: {?} really really difficult issues and can I see I think JKR is a national hero she stays in this country she pays her taxes to this country and she gives her money to good causes and it’s really distressing to think she is treated as anything less than a national hero

JHB and she’s never ever said anything remotely transphobic at all. So you can answer the question which your party leader KS couldn’t answer yes - can a woman have a penis?

SmcD eh … I think …

JHB it’s a really easy question Siobhan

SMcD no, no, it’s because I don’t want to answer in a way that provokes just a furore. I think -

JHB Siobhan. It’s a really easy question. Can a woman have a penis?

SMcD No, I don’t think so. But I do think a man with a penis can want to become a woman.

JHB doesn’t make him a woman though

SMcD not at that point

JHB at what point does it then?

SMcD That’s the question I’m grappling with

JHB You can be supportive of trans people and say if someone wants to live their life as a woman they can be a transwoman doesn’t necessarily mean they take on all of the rights that a woman has because of reasons of biological sex which make a difference for example women’s sport or women’s refuges or safe spaces or changing rooms
that’s not hatred that’s not stirring things up that’s just a recognition of biological reality. something with KS your party leader who wants to be PM struggles with does that not as a woman worry you?

SMcD: yeah, yeah but Julia

JHB it does worry you?

SMcD: I don’t know about you but I’ve seen people who were originally were men who transitioned to being women at some point

JHB: are they transitioned to being women or are they living as transwomen?

SMcD: Ah. I’m not sure I understand the difference.

JHB: because if you still have a penis and you’re born a man, you’re a man, aren’t you?

SMcD: Yeah, but you might be … oh, see .. We’re going down a rabbit hole now

JHB: No, we’re not we’re trying to establish what people who want to be elected to run this country actually y think about some fundamental things which none of my listeners would struggle to grapple with at all

SMcD: I hope I’ve answered you Julia I do believe

JHB: You said that a woman doesn’t have a penis apart from a man who says he wants to be a woman at some point does become a woman

SMcD: no no I think there are some people who do want to transition – I think it’s a tiny number

JHB: yes of course there are

SMcD: - a tiny number. and as you sad basically I just want people to live their lives as they feel comfortable with. I do believe there is a place for safe spaces for women. And I think three women a week are murdered at the hands of men and you just can’t get round that.

DecayedStrumpet · 29/03/2022 14:58

Oh dear, she clearly doesn't believe TWAW at all but is stuck with Be Kind and the threat of all the shit that will rain down on her if she actually lets it slip

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 29/03/2022 15:03

@DecayedStrumpet

Oh dear, she clearly doesn't believe TWAW at all but is stuck with Be Kind and the threat of all the shit that will rain down on her if she actually lets it slip
I've put some useful quotations from Vaclav Havel's Power of the Powerless essay in this thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4382551-Live-not-by-lies-Solzhenitsyn-no-tambourines-involved?

I'd also like to add this (which I don't think I did in the above):

Vaclav Havel, 1978 has some prescient observations about mantras and the unthinking adoption of an ideology and the true cost of the absolution that it confers.

In an era when metaphysical and existential certainties are in a state of crisis, when people are being uprooted and alienated and are losing their sense of what this world means, this ideology inevitably has a certain hypnotic charm. To wandering humankind it offers an immediately available home: all one has to do is accept it, and suddenly everything becomes clear once more, life takes on new meaning, and all mysteries, unanswered questions, anxiety, and loneliness vanish. Of course, one pays dearly for this low-rent home: the price is abdication of one’ s own reason, conscience, and responsibility, for an essential aspect of this ideology is the consignment of reason and conscience to a higher authority.

hac.bard.edu/amor-mundi/the-power-of-the-powerless-vaclav-havel-2011-12-23

Appledrop · 29/03/2022 15:41

[quote MalagaNights]Wrong link

twitter.com/talkRADIO/status/1508728282396692483?t=lz3UaO4Tu7D1DXldLJ-WRg&s=19[/quote]
Wow, the voting on this .... Hmm

Labour MP says women don't have penises
ChopinBoard · 29/03/2022 15:46

I watched this earlier. She started well, if hesitantly, and then floundered. Overall, a better performance than most Labour MPs: 6/10

Well done and thank you to Julia HB who is doing great work, here. Any journalist worth their salt must think all their Christmases have come at once now that they have this question in their arsenal!