The difference? My guess would be that you don't tend to see feminists lining up to defend male supremacy.
and thats the thing that confuses me the most
It’s like they’ve performed a Jedi mind trick on themselves.
Think of Layla Moran and her “I can see into their souls” or whatever drivel it was she said.
They really have convinced themselves that some male people “are” actually women. And if you accept that first premise, then the rest makes sense, in a horribly nonsensical kind of way.
If you accept that, then yes, it does look like horrible bigoted meanness to “exclude” them from women’s spaces, and I can even see where they’re coming from with their awful racial segregation analogies, because in their befuddled minds we really are treating them as second class “women”, out of nothing but prejudice.
The problem is of course that there is no actual reason in the world to pretend they are actually women, when they’re not. When they are by definition excluded from the category “woman”. But the lib fems just can’t seem to get their heads round this very vital part of the equation. Can’t seem to recognise that the biggest piece of their intersectional puzzle is completely missing.
Even when they have to admit they can’t come up with a single working definition of “woman” that means anything at all, and includes these males, they just resort to Moran style nonsense, and accusations of meanness.
The emotional conviction that they are right, the sanctimonious, holier than thou posturing and virtue signalling, and projecting of every negative quality under the sun onto us - what is this mania? Is it just internalised misogyny gone really, really wrong? Is it denial as defence mechanism against the very real pain of acknowledging how bad misogyny still is? How we are still very much the second sex, the support humans?
I’ve seen it said that when people have a deep emotional investment in believing something, then no amount of reason will dissuade them from it. As long as their need to believe it is greater than their wish to be rational, then it doesn’t matter what arguments we come up with, they’re all just used against us to prove how bad we are.
For example, they say there’s no increased risk in allowing males into women’s spaces. We then provide numerous examples of biologically male people who are, or claim to be, trans being convicted of sexual offences - and it’s just “proof” of our “bigotry”. The fact we are aware of it is a crime in itself, a far greater crime than the ones these males committed, because it shows we went looking for evidence, or we’re “cherry picking”, and only bad people don’t believe that trans people are who they say they are.
Like the ducking stool: damned if we have the stats, damned if we don’t.
Getting one group of women to completely demonise and dehumanise another group of women, and furthermore calling it “feminism”, was an absolute master stroke of MRA activism. If women were all on board with opposing the TRA agenda, it would be a very different picture we’d be looking at now. The age old divide and conquer. This is the patriarchy in action.