[quote Motorina]@DontLikeCrumpets as a rule of thumb they shouldn't
However, we're talking within the specific confines of a medical appointment. Not only that, a one off medical appointment for a very specific purpose - to assess suitability for work. And the imposition is the relatively minor matter of addressing someone by their chosen name and title.
We accept that, in other circumstances, the rights of patients outweigh the rights of medical staff. I can, for example, insist on a female gynaecologist even if that means a male trainee lacks the opportunity to gain experience, or a male doctor's right to work is infringed. My rights as a patient to receive treatment I am comfortable with outweigh the doctor's rights. As they should.
I think this is another of those circumstances. I think that in part because of the power imbalance in this particular medical consultation. And in part because calling someone with a 5 o'clock shadow 'Mrs' if that's their preference is a relatively minor infringement for the doctor, but has fairly major impact for the patient.
Others have said there are situations where it may be appropriate to challenge a patient on the validity of their gender identity. I agree. If you're going to your GP because of mental health problems, and your gender identity feeds into that, then that shoudl of course be open for exploration. If the appointment is for a physical problem when sex is relevant, then of course that should be considered. But if someone's long-transitioned and is going for their bunions, then the doctor would be obnoxious to insist on addressing them in a way appropriate to their sex.
It's not requiring the doctor to believe that the person in front of them has changed sex. That would be a nonsense. It's simply requiring the courtesy of addressing a patient in a way they prefer, when the reason for that preference is not clinically relevant.
There are situations when the pronoun line must be held firmly. This situation isn't one of them.[/quote]
There was no medical appointment.
No personal consultation for a medical matter.
The person attending the doctor is not a patient.
The doctor was employed by the arm of the State empowered to prevent the fraudulent acquisition of Taxpayers remitted funds.
The assessment is an anti-fraud measure.
Society has decided that an applicant can give up some rights in exchange an applicant gets a portion of the redistributed wealth.
The assessor doing a gyne exam is sexually assaulting the applicant.
If presented with bunions the doctor will assess that that applicant is partially mobile so is suitable for work.
There are situations where accepting a polite lie is acceptable; an auditor doing that while conducting an audit is not one of them.