OP, there are apparently, 6,500 genetic differences between men and women.
I'm sure a biologist, scientist or endocrinologist could list each and every one of them with a detailed definition.
As it is, they culminate in the descriptions of adult human female of or denoting the sex who bears eggs, and adult human male of or denoting the sex who produce sperm. The word denoting is the one that takes into account all the different criteria.
Humans with disorders of sexual development also fall into the two categories, male or female but with sometimes harder than normal characteristics in order to make a classification. It's worth noting that some of these disorders are extremely dangerous and can result in early loss of life. They are not a gotcha. They are a human condition, identifiable and verifiable. The medical profession who do this are not sitting there scratching their chins wondering what the fuck they've got on their hands. These are real people with real issues.
As other people have pointed out, the 6,500 differences will usually produce a distinctive visual which is immediately obvious to the human eye.
Hence no one wandering around wondering which set of humans to put in charge, and which set of humans to treat like a service.
Funnily enough.
Ffs. There really is absolutely no end to which people will go to claim women should not have boundaries.
Not necessarily you, OP. But I wouldn't know either way.