The deaths, the rapist footballers, the Met texts that were leaked. They hate us so much. And it feels like there's absolutely nothing we can do about it.
The lack of accountability or even the vaguest concept that there should be. So many of the friends and colleagues of the footballers and those Met employees must have known yet they said and did nothing.
I always think of the Daniel Sloss monologue (I can't find a video clip but it's quoted here). He talked about his reaction to learning that one of his friends had raped another of his friends.
"The Scottish comedian said he has been thinking of a solution to the problem for a year.
He said: "It has to involve us. And by 'us' I mean men."
He says that he is not attacking the men in the room or his friends, before proceeding to tell his harrowing experience.
The comedian said: "I knew this man for 8 years and he fucking did it. There are monsters amongst us and they look like us."
He told his male spectators that if they are sick of the narrative, they can feel free to change it but they have to get involved.
He urged his male audience not to "sit back" and think "I'm not part of the problem."
"Deep down, I know most men are good", he said, "but when 1 in 10 men are shit and the other 9 do nothing, they might as well not fucking be there."
Speaking of his experience, he said that, looking back, there were signs in his friend's behaviour towards women that he ignored.
"And then he raped my friend. And that's on me until the day I die."
"Talk to your fucking boys. Get involved."
Different link, similar content. www.dailyrecord.co.uk/entertainment/celebrity/scots-comedian-daniel-sloss-shares-23688472