Great post @HowToCookAWolf thank you
As a member of the LGBT+ community for many years, this part especially resonated...
What it always comes down to though is that the LGB movement genuinely supported loving yourself as you were, that you could be who you are, in the body that you have, loving the people that you do, and that it was OK, that it was innate, that it was normal. Accepting same-sex attraction requires that everyone change absolutely nothing. A woman dating another woman affects no one but the two people in a relationship, unless you're simply morally outraged. The trans lobby instead tells you that if your mind doesn't fit a certain criteria, based on literally anything, then you need to change yourself. It pushes that it's normal to hate your body, and that to love your body, you need medication, surgery, and treatment for life. It normalizes self hate in the guise of self acceptance.
It's a really different mindset now amongst some. It feels so freeing to love yourself and others as they are and I don't feel that this spirit has gone away entirely. We need to reclaim it.*