There are posters at best ignoring and at worst, defending comments about girls being fat, not pretty, having a moustache, having a "Cypriot bosom", wearing a "flirty hijab", analysis of skull types, a boy described as "African Jonathan"
What on earth was that last one meant to mean?
It meant, in shorthand, Jonathan, who we met very briefly and much earlier in the book, when we were discussing his acceptance speech on winning an award, when his ‘slow, resonant African accent’ was given in part of his description.
Yes, it’s clumsy to have used only ‘African’ as his description in the latter mention - but equally if she’d just said ‘Jonathon’ it’s a stretch we’d remember exactly which boy he was, given this book is intentionally steeped in race and how that interacts with the wider political landscape these kids sit within.
The piece about the fat girls is shocking, not gonna lie. But it’s honest, in context, about her own ‘middle-class waist’ her middle-class attitudes and class privilege to not eat poorly, to think she’s ‘worth it’. She’s - rather shockingly, exposingly - saying we judge fat people and we judge fat women and girls disproportionately and here’s why there’s emotional trauma and generational trauma of poverty behind their “choices” which aren’t choices at all. That we shouldn’t judge.
It’s why I’m baffled people aren’t seeing the clear intent in the context of the writing.
Fine, “Ashkenazi nose” is misjudged, “African Jonathon” is a poor call-back to reference the character etc. ‘Flirty hijab’ sounds awful by itself - but it’s in a discussion of how the girls who wear hijab feel more free from the male gaze and you need to read the whole thing to see the balanced argument she’s making on its significance.
I hear the resounding yell of ‘intent doesn’t matter’.
But I really fundamentally and truly think that it does. Intent does matter. How can it not?
Who can speak if we cannot have a conversation that isn’t just ‘you can’t say that’.
That’s all I’ve got from this - certain people are so outraged by anything even being discussed in writing by this middle-aged, middle-class white woman that she should say nothing - because to describe what you see from your own point of view is abhorrent.
I don’t disagree with points made by many posters in this thread that mentions of race or physical appearance etc must be relevant to the discussion to not be racist.
I just cannot fathom how people are reading the same book as me and thinking it’s not relevant.
So I’m as deeply baffled and perturbed and worried by this as the posters saying they cannot believe anyone is defending KC.
I’m not defending her - I think there’s a butt-load of issues I’m uncomfortable with so I can’t defend her as a person who made rubbish public profile decisions. The renewed publicity feels a bit ick, if I’m honest. I don’t think she’s being well advised on how to navigate this.
But her book? And her right to discuss her own viewpoint in writing and the fundamental principle of reading a whole work and considering context? Yes, I’ll defend that.
I think I’m done for this thread now though.