I've realised recently another massive point. I mean I sort of half realised but it's really crystallised now.
Esp seen with gender > sex people. But tbh loads of things when it comes to men arguing for things they want or like or believe, which have women things they don't like.
*That statistics are vital when they support male position.
*However statistics are secondary to individual experiences when that is better for them.
*Or they present statistics that are totally unreliable, while rejecting undeniably robust stats about women.
*Or they blur the parameters of stats they like, and deliberately misrepresentat them often by omission.
*Redefining the group under consideration in order to vanish any unhelpful figures is done as well.
*Randomly raising reports etc from any other country they can find that supports their pov happens a lot.
And more I'm sure.
Examples
First insisting on term sex workers, not prostitutes. Sex workers is a v large range of people and what they do. Watering down stats about prostitution harm and risk.
Then insisting that as rape, sexual assault, coercion, trafficking etc are crimes. Anyone experiencing those things is not counted as a sex worker. They are victims of crime that's different. Thus sex work is 100% risk free.
Males in women's prisons. Current or ex inmates talking about experiences with male inmates in women's prisons are anecdotes.
Only stats matter. (Even though women often don't report, a lot of iffy behaviour is just shy of crime but has big impact. Ignores fear discomfort loss of privacy etc.). If GRC will be recorded as female. Not to say GRC holders doing whatever more, less, at all. I mean it's an issue for stats.
Meanwhile males talking about their experience must be listened to. Talk about double standards.
The other ubiquitous thing is to say look X attacks by males, hardly any compared to ones by women. Ignoring the fact very few males doing those attacks, compared to female population. Totally incorrect conclusion that less problem.
MVAWG. This is even bolder. The level of DV, and sex assaults across population against women. Are actually the same as female on male. Female on male just not reported/anyone told etc.
Anecdotes about lesbian women having same level and type of predatory sexual behaviour as males. Crass lesbophobia. And misogyny. Male centred approach that takes women who fancy women as exhibiting majority male sexuality therefore must behave like men.