The marker on a passport is descriptive, rather than definitive, and every passport issuing authority has their own rules about changing it. Some won't, but others are very liberal.
Your legal sex is the one on your birth certificate. Providers of single sex services should therefore ask to see a birth certificate if they want to be sure.
UK passports can be changed with a letter from a GP, and that has been the case for many years. Transsexuals to my knowledge change them for two reasons.
- To avoid confusion at immigration. A reasonably well passing transsexual is going to run into problems with a passport with a marker showing their birth sex.
- To satisfy the two-year "living in the opposite gender" rule for both a GRC and to be referred for GRS.
We don't show our passport when we go through the security scanners in airports. Actually the last four flights I've taken were all domestic, and I had not got a passport with me. I try my best not to set the darned things off. But when I do, it is the woman who will invariably step forward and go over me with the hand held scanner thing.
[I'm transsexual for those who do not know.]
Last time I was patted down as such was at a sporting event. I'd stood in line to get in with my son. Onlu when we got the front did I realise we were in one of several lines of men, while the women were all queuing separately.
It does not bother me who pats me down, really. But before I got to the man at the front, a female steward came over, told me that I had been in the wrong queue, "but never mind" and did the patting down.
This is real life. Should I have kicked up a fuss? Some would say I should have done. But I just wanted to get inside the ground, and they just wanted to do their jobs and clear the queue as quickly as possible.
I think, as a society we need to make a choice:
• Do we allow transsexuals to legally transition, in which case passports will be changed as part of that process, or
• Do we say no. But that still isn't going to stop these issues at airport scanners, sporting grounds and elsewhere where people respond to what they see. Unless we go further, and say that we must express ourselves differently according to our sex.