@MintMe
But surely the mix of letters signifies a common group of people who are marginalised, discriminated against and vulnerable and therefore needs rights and allies and protection? How can you need those things if no one knows you are those things???
This sounds well intentioned.
However, all those letters are about sexual orientation, sexual preferences. Who they want to have sex with or not have sex with. And what I see with DC’s friends etc is this unceasing and endless focus on their sexuality at earlier and earlier ages.
More worryingly, what’s happening is a conflation of their sexual orientation with their identity full stop. Maybe it’s just our area/DC’s school but every other aspect of identity is subordinated to ruminating on which letter represents them, which letter dominates. The anxiety these discussions provoke is heart breaking. No space or freedom or time to just be.
Plus, whilst LGBT have been / still are vulnerable, how are those ‘undefined’ marginalised or discriminated against? Surely by definition this is not possible?
All of this is aIded and fully abetted by well meaning adults (like you?) and a social media ruthlessly intent on prioritising content with extreme emotional content.