Why is who you sleep with or not sleep with being made into the most important thing about a person?
All these different labels that change constantly. Feelings changed from one minute to the next? Then you have a New gender identity minute to minute … Personality. That’s what it used to be called. Now parts of a personality are made into a label that supposedly defines who you are as a person.
It used to be that we wished to move away from labels and people wanted a world where we were allowed to just exist as we are. Now it seems they want to force labels onto everyone (focusing on children and young adults) to put themselves into a box and then to make that label the main focus of who they are.
Introducing yourself based on who you have sex with or what you identify as is amazingly abnormal and creates a sense of over familiarity in a moment where repoire is meant to be building. It’s a breakdown of boundaries in the most basic of human interactions. No one need to know such personal information on first or even second meeting. Why can’t we stick to introducing one another by name? Why even the need to explain your pronouns? As in English if I refer to you by name it’s fine. If I speak about you to someone else then you don’t have a right to dictate how I speak about you in my conversations to other.
Who you are sexually attracted to is not a personality. That’s one small part of who you are. It seems we are going to be faced with a generation of emotionally stunted individuals who have no concept of self unless it is around who they choose to sex. This is sad and worrying.
It is turning society into an even more sexually charged environment in all areas.
There are very few places one can go to that isn’t permeated by sex these days. Children can no longer just exist without sex even permeating what should be safe spaces for children to just exist.
It’s disturbing.