@ANewCreation
If it helps, you will see those NHS pages were published in 2018 at the height of the GRA reform debacle and, particularly in the case of the second one, have long passed their review date. They should be retired.
Keywords like gender (when sex is meant) and 'assigned' always appear to be evidence of "controversial charity's Stonewall’s" lobbying.
This NHS link is more up to date publication wise and replaces an earlier, equally incoherent, genderist 2018 version, although even it now needs some revision due to the Keira Bell decisions.
www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment/
I would be interested to know what the school thinks 'gender' means and push them to define it.
I might say, "Sex refers to our male or female reproductive status and, in UK law under the Equality Act 2010, a woman is described as a female of any age and a man as a male of any age. Sex is determined at conception, can be observed in utero and is recorded at birth.
Deciding whether then to dress that newborn baby in pink or blue can only be one based on sex-based stereotypes around masculinity or femininity ie Gender. Surely Gender/sex-based stereotypes are harmful?
What does the school mean by Gender?
I appreciate the link and will keep a record of it. But I don’t see anything that says transgender does not equal identifying with the opposite gender than assigned at birth. Which is what they claim the nhs site says about definition.
I started off arguing with them by asking for definitions of words used and how they meet the guidance. I don’t think I can keep on that track now they are passing it off to senior lead and saying sorry it’s half term.
I think I need something that clearly explains how the definition they’ve given breeches guidance. I’ve sent ssa & tt links already, while they agree it doesn’t appear to fully click, judging by this definition which breeches guidance. And I expect they think they’d cooperated enough already, as if following the d of e guidance is something they only have to do half way and slip off accountability by passing the buck to the nhs site.
I know they are incredibly busy and go over and above, especially for my kids, are sound irritated to have me at them again. But I just don’t think it’s a hard concept to teach accurate facts about basic biological concepts, as the guidance dictates they should. And I’m loosing patience as I’m sure they are also.
It feels like arguing it’s important to teach 2+2 = 4 accurately or that they shouldn’t be using the language of creationism when teaching evolution. And I have very low tolerance for repeatedly explaining this, it’s not my strong point at all. I can easily tell anyone what I think about gender ideology or safeguarding or schools follow d of e guidance, but I feel like I’m dangerously close to screaming that it’s not fucking rocket science and to stop being so fucking dense.
Which doesn’t help and isn’t fair, because mostly they are great at listening and go over and above.
Hence why I need help to address this without jumping to formal complaints and copying in ofsted. Because I don’t think that’s the best way to handle a school that tries to work with parents, but I don’t know a more effective way to address this when calm, unemotional and patient communication is not my strong point.