I'm saying it again, I do not feel sorry for MA. I love her books. I don't wish her harm. I hope she does realise what a terrible situation she has lent legitimacy to through her position of authority as a revered author and expert on women's rights. I hope she regrets what she did. I don't expect her to say that she does regret it or apologise as I don't believe she has it in her to be contrite. I will be delighted if she decides to stand up for women, as her voice will open up a dialogue that is verboten in her circles. I don't think any of those positions is incompatible with the other.
I do not buy the line that she has become an unwitting ally to TRAs through kindness or whatever. She famously said that nothing that was written in Handmaid's Tale was made up - that it was all a representation of what was happening to women in real time. She is supposed to be (set herself up as) learned in the plethora of ways men worldwide have found to suppress, terrorise and remove the human rights of women. Nothing that has been done in the name of trans rights is particularly obscure, it's not hard to spot the pitfalls. Not for an intelligent woman of the world, who has always put women at the forefront of her writing, and has the privilege of time to think about this stuff and to speak out from a place where her livelihood is not under threat. And living in Canada, she would have seen gender politics rolled out, not by stealth as it has been in the UK/Ireland, but right in her face.
So why didn't she see the downside for women? Is she in fact out of touch? Handmaid's Tale was written/published nearly 40 years ago. Perhaps the TV version rolling out gave MA a reflected glow of contemporary relevance that didn't actually exist?
If she does have her eyes opened now, I can't help thinking it's only because she is on the receiving end personally. It's not about those poor immigrant women Yaniv went after in her country, the poor women in prisons sharing with TW in her country, the women ousted from sport by the Canadian sporting authorities that support self ID, the silencing and cancelling that has gone on in universities in her country. All of the women whose lives have been irreversibly damaged by Canadian self ID laws did not have a voice with the clout MA speaking for them. How different it could have been if she had put herself out for them instead of putting herself out for the powerful lobby of TRAs. I hope MA is having a road to Damascus moment, but I rather suspect the revelation will be based on self preservation alone. As this thread demonstrates, people on this side are kinder and more forgiving as a whole, she's safer here. Which is fine, everyone should welcome MA if she does cross that golden bridge. But I do not and will not feel sorry for her.