Hmmm
Why is the word mother verboten but not maternity? That makes no sense.
Pink news person says lesbians and gay men find this important. Do they?
Lesbians are... Female! And generally one woman has the baby. Is the mother. Currently in law. I can't see a lesbian who is having/ has had a baby getting referred to as the baby's mother... In the home both women have a variation of mum generally IME.
Gay men? Well saying one of the couple is the mother surely isn't seen as something to push for? I can't see that at all. Daddy and dad etc.
As ever look at the inconsistencies and diversions.
Mother is wanted to mean something else.
Lesbian and gay couples who have a baby can't see this as an issue for the couples in what they are referred to as in hosp.
TM is also a red herring. Only mentioned to support something else. Hardly any.
Sooo.
I reckon surrogacy.
Law here is woman who has the baby is mother. In law.
This means she has a place on records, and if she decides to keep the baby she can.
Push is for laws here to be more USA. Contractual giving 'certainty' to the couple that the baby is for.
Woman has no rights to baby. Further, some contracts the 'commissioning' parents can make decisions like whether or not to terminate any in case of multiple pregnancy. (Want lots of babies can say no against medical advice re risk to mother and other foetuses. Change mind can decide abort. Etc)
Mother is also an emotive word. A fundamental to mammals. Deep reactions to mother and babies being separated on nature progs. And for many. With humans.
Need words that don't invoke those feelings so much.
Gestational carrier is popular.
That's what this is about.
And. Interestingly the desire to separate the baby from the mother in thinking. Is also used by anti abortion types. Esp in USA. Always a pic of foetus floating in space. The fact it's inside a woman is deliberately avoided at all costs.
Exact same approach .
Both about controlling women to get something they want.