This ended up almost saga-length & wandered off from the point a bit, sorry, but not really up to editing, so TL;DR: self-ID for oppression points &/or to justify poor behaviour is absolutely A Thing in TRA & SJW circles. Would not trust this survey as far as I can spit. (My toothpaste would like to thank gravity for enabling it to reach the basin.)
There is (& has been for much this century, courtesy of ever-improving internet access & exponential growth in ways to communicate with others online - but greatly amping up over at least the last decade) an enormous trend for self-diagnosis. DID & Tourette’s are the flavours du jour, but autism remains a perennial favourite - the hashtag “actually autistic” was partly developed to try to distinguish the voices/conversations of people with ASD from parents of people with it; but also because the adults shamelessly LARPing autism were such a nightmare. Obviously the shameless bit meant they flooded the hashtag - “self-diagnosis is valid!” & “diagnosis/healthcare is a privilege!” are BIG things on social media. Obviously in the US there are people who won’t be able to afford to engage with the diagnostic process, but firmly declaring you absolutely have something (not infrequently accompanied by lecturing people at length about it & buying items - eg chewable jewellery - that will act as visual signifiers of [perceived] Special Status) is really not ok. When you have the necessary insurance & won’t seek professional diagnosis (because self-diagnosis is valid/because if you have an ASD diagnosis they will strip you of [insert rights here]/because if you have an ASD diagnosis & go into hospital they will murder you [bizarrely doesn’t stop people sharing the self-diagnosis with staff]) or you refuse to accept being told (sometimes multiple times) you do not have ASD - also a problem. The UK has its own issues with NHS waiting lists & ongoing underdiagnosis of girls & women (the latter, particularly) but again, rather than “I think I may have ASD, I’m particularly struggling with [thing(s)], could anyone recommend some resources/how to talk to my GP about referral” there’s a lot of “my GP is rubbish/waiting lists to specialists are too long/they told me it’s not ASD: self-ID is valid & now watch me stim-dance”. ADHD is still popular too.
Physical disability is another arena where social media frankly isn’t doing anyone any favours. Even on here - “I have sore joints” cue chorus of people insisting the poster must require investigating for Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome despite their clarifying that they are not, & never have been, hypermobile any joint (or even slightly flexible); nobody in their family is “bendy”; & they have none of the diagnostic-criteria-forming issues people have reeled off. In online “support” spaces people ask what they need to say to get diagnosed with things; if there’s a way to “make sure” tests show “what they need to”; people seek recommendations for doctors who will basically give them what they want, whether that’s a particular diagnosis, particular treatments, or both; & of course it’s an endlessly tour of Elevenerife as people vie to be Sickest Of Them All. (Which leaves anyone who’d just like some actual kind of actual support group stranded, yes.)
Anyone who is actually disabled will tell you it is not fun. Even if you have a positive outlook & immense gratitude for how things are, it is inescapable that there will be times it is awkward/difficult/frustrating/painful/other. And you don’t get to switch it off. Unlike the people who thoughtfully broadcast their lives on social media - always enough “spoons” for the things they want to do, but their share of the cleaning/visiting family where they won’t be the centre of attention/an activity of someone else’s choice? No spoons. Sometimes there is even a miraculous replenishment of the cutlery drawer if something comes up! A lot of the people who claim ASD have similar issues with what causes “sensory overload”. And while that is absolutely complicated & variable, if the crowds that are never ok are the unfun ones but you’re fine in packed concerts & at protests & shopping is only an issue when it stops being for you…
There is a definite theme of exploiting groups of people who actually are oppressed & marginalised. A strange kind of oppression Top Trumps - the more marginalised you are, the less - & indeed fewer - people are allowed to question you; & the louder you’re allowed to shout. In the world of SJWs, I mean, where as we know there is some serious warping of ideas about privilege & oppression. But if you look at biographies on social media, as well as the pronouns, if they’re in the oppression olympics, you’ll also have the announcement they’re trans, queer, disabled, autistic [& both intersex & Jewish get surprisingly frequent mentions].
Hugely frustratingly, autism is often used as an explanation for rudeness &/or poor behaviour by these groups (NB not only those who identify as trans &/or non-binary) in a way I’ve only seen once (from a parent for their child) from anyone [who is a parent of/carer for someone] with an actual diagnosis. “If you think I’m being rude I’m not, it’s because I’m autistic.” The expectation is that their rudeness go unchallenged & should someone dare say anything they’ll be accused - at the very least - of ableism; possibly retraumatising the person who was rude to them; right up to the traditional You Are A Nazi. Equally: “I had a meltdown & screamed at/hit/threw things (possibly including furniture) at family/friends/educational staff & they are being ableist by enforcing consequences to these actions” or “people are so ableist I had a meltdown in a public place & I heard someone say I looked like a toddler having a tantrum lying on the floor screaming & crying”… etc.
As we all know, just saying you are a thing doesn’t make you it. If this were going to get people to look closely at why so many girls with autism are declaring themselves to be trans &/or non-binary - & then ensure they get appropriate support before making any changes; or even develop resources specifically for girls with autism as they enter puberty - that would be great. The dismal methodology & “next steps” makes it seem they were actively looking for further backing for the Most Oppressed Of All claim; & potentially to further claims that trans people are being denied (life-saving) healthcare - possibly to serve as a springboard for a further survey about transphobia in healthcare to really go for that dream scenario of funding healthcare for trans people being paramount. Absolutely trans people deserve excellent care on the NHS. But only as excellent as the rest of the population. I do wonder if the recent BBC “Panorama” episode about the surgical backlog would give any of them who talk about “life-saving surgery” pause, but sadly I suspect not. There seems to be no comprehension years on waiting lists is not unique to the trans experience & people throughout the UK are languishing in agony &/or anguish on all sorts of lists.
Sorry, I’ve got away from myself so am adding a TL;DR at the top. 