@TurquoiseBaubles
I've just had a humbinger of a row with my (gay) brother, who has told me I know nothing about anything and that I'm a bigot and worse than the anti-gays of the '70s.
How can I make him see sense when he just yells at me every time.
I'm so cross at myself. When he lost his temper, I just shut down and shut up. I know he's wrong; why can't I convince him?
On the plus side both of my "be kind" adult children are now onside. One because of NHS wards, the other because of women's sport.
You can agree to disagree, he shouldn't be shouting at you. You may need to accept that you are not going to see eye to eye on this, I wouldn't throw away a good relationship over it if you generally get on well. Maybe just say you don't want to talk about it anymore.
Or perhaps you could direct him to the gay people speaking out about this - Sheridan Sinclair, Arty Morty, Julie Bindel, I'm sure there are others.
Also Arty Morty has a video on his youtube channel about how this is not the same as gay rights. Sadly I do think for many gay people they see this as a minority group struggling against oppression, and want to support them, without looking further into it or seeing the conflict with women's rights.
I also think men in general tend to have little or no awareness of women's issues, because they don't really have to think about it.