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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

bizarre definition of woman

99 replies

parietal · 18/06/2021 14:05

I've followed the GC debate quietly here for years, but this is the first time I've seen the other side actually provide a definition, and it is pretty bizarre & insulting.

So here is the tweet, from @graceelavery, somewhere further down this thread

twitter.com/graceelavery/status/1405661319903289344

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well, i think it’s like your definition of “firefighter”—quite circular, as it goes, because it is a messy, socialized term. a woman is a person who is, or has been, presumed to adopt a passive role in sexual intercourse and a reproductive role in economic life. it’s not perfect
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NecessaryScene · 18/06/2021 14:10

Oh, we've had bad definitions before. Sad This is certainly not an outlier.

Helen Joyce was collecting them for her book. There was a Twitter thread, but it seems she's deleted it.

But you can catch her talking about them in this podcast.

Helen Joyce on the Odd Redefinition of the Word “Woman”

Quillette contributor Helen Joyce talks to Jonathan Kay about the many ways in which gender ideologues have tied themselves in knots by trying to make the sisterhood more "inclusive".

Hilarious listen. And rage-inducing.

WoolOfBat · 18/06/2021 14:14

Looking at that definition, I am not a woman. Does the same person define transwoman? Maybe I am a transwoman?

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 18/06/2021 14:19

And who are these people "presumed to adopt a passive role in sexual intercourse and a reproductive role in economic life"? How do the people doing the presuming identify them?

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 18/06/2021 14:26

I've just clicked through to our new lexicographer's twitter profile. Lavery's own words: "happy, lucky, horny, indomitable".

Does this mean that Lavery doesn't adopt "a passive role in sexual intercourse"?

bizarre definition of woman
WoolOfBat · 18/06/2021 14:27

Do we all have to state our sexual preferences in order to define ourselves as women? I am so confused

jay55 · 18/06/2021 14:30

So are women men until they lose their virginity?

FOJN · 18/06/2021 14:30

I'm usually quite grateful for these, the responses are a joy to read.

Helleofabore · 18/06/2021 14:30

If people cannot see the misogyny in this movement, it has to be because they are deliberately glossing over this stuff.

And Lavery was an academic at Berkeley. One whose role was questioned as to their ability to set relevant assessment for their courses.

This is supposed to be a prominent activist yet comes out with misogynistic trope regularly.

When people tell you who they are, believe them alright.

Keep talking Grace Laverty. Sunlight is a wonderful thing.

Helleofabore · 18/06/2021 14:31

The reply about nuns being men then was a good one.

Siblingquandary · 18/06/2021 14:37

So do two lesbians who fancy eachother just lie there waiting for the other one to make the first move?

Helleofabore · 18/06/2021 14:42

Of course, let’s not forget this gem from English Rugby now either.

'Female: a person who does not produce male levels of testosterone at puberty and adolescence'
England Rugby.

maslinpan · 18/06/2021 14:46

I am curious about how one could adopt a "reproductive role in economic life". Is this like a biological version of quantitative easing, whereby you give birth to money?

JuneJustRains · 18/06/2021 14:51

'Female: a person who does not produce male levels of testosterone at puberty and adolescence'
England Rugby.

They define trans women as male then? Sounds like they also define Caster Semenya as male?

But more to the point, how are they defining ‘male levels’ unless they know what they mean by male?

JellySlice · 18/06/2021 14:56

Is this Grave Lavery person TWAW? They sound like it, but have just defined women in a way that makes TW not women:

a woman is a person who is, or has been, presumed to adopt a passive role in sexual intercourse and a reproductive role in economic life.

Vanishun · 18/06/2021 14:58

"Women. The things you fuck and impregnate."

TheWeeDonkey · 18/06/2021 15:01

I like it. They think they're telling us who we are but really they're telling us who they are.

JustcameoutGC · 18/06/2021 15:10

Oh yes, my favourite MN phrase ever, "when someone shows you who they really are - listen".

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 18/06/2021 15:15

@JellySlice

Is this Grave Lavery person TWAW? They sound like it, but have just defined women in a way that makes TW not women:

a woman is a person who is, or has been, presumed to adopt a passive role in sexual intercourse and a reproductive role in economic life.

Yes, definitely inclined to the TWAW philosophical position.

"ForGrace Lavery, coming out as a trans woman was nerve-racking at first. A professor in Berkeley’s Department of English, she was afraid of how her colleagues and students would react. As she explains, a certain amount of criticism comes with the territory of being in academia, adding that, “in my profession, there’s always some degree ofanxiety.”

But her experience was also nuanced and affirming. When Lavery changed her name at work, the English Department moved “lightning quick” to make the necessary adjustments. She sent an email to her department manager, and by the end of the day, her name had been changed outside her office and on her inbox tray in WheelerHall.

Lavery, who was hired as a professor in Victorian literature in 2013, became interested in trans studies after reading the work of 19th century writerGeorge Eliot. She wanted to know why Eliot, who was born Mary Ann Evans, went by a male pseudonym. Many of the explanations Lavery found just didn’t cut it, which led her to do her own scholarly research. What she discovered were “deeper and richer ways of thinking about gendered language and identity claims” than she hadexpected."

Continues: alumni.berkeley.edu/california-magazine/fall-2020/transitioning-with-grace-lavery-coming-out-in-academia

WoolOfBat · 18/06/2021 15:17

I actually think this is homophobic. If you have two sexual partners, as soon as one is “passive” that will be a woman. What about the other one (especially if no children and unemployed)?

Is this the end of homosexual relationships?

WhiteFeministWarMachine · 18/06/2021 15:31

What a load of nonsense.

Sunlight.

Minezatea · 18/06/2021 15:42

I realised a good while ago that I have no 'gender'. Now I see I am also not a woman.

I do wonder, though, who does the perceiving? Because I don't perceive women as adopting a passive role in sexual intercourse and a reproductive role in economic life. So are we actually saying that women are people perceived BY MEN in this way.

This is a whole other level of of oppression and is disgusting.

TinselAngel · 18/06/2021 15:47

@parietal

I've followed the GC debate quietly here for years, but this is the first time I've seen the other side actually provide a definition, and it is pretty bizarre & insulting.

So here is the tweet, from @graceelavery, somewhere further down this thread

twitter.com/graceelavery/status/1405661319903289344

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well, i think it’s like your definition of “firefighter”—quite circular, as it goes, because it is a messy, socialized term. a woman is a person who is, or has been, presumed to adopt a passive role in sexual intercourse and a reproductive role in economic life. it’s not perfect
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That's an AGP definition.
AssassinatedBeauty · 18/06/2021 15:52

"a woman is a person who is, or has been, presumed to adopt a passive role in sexual intercourse and a reproductive role in economic life. it’s not perfect"

It's not only "not perfect". It is offensive in a multitude of ways, as PP have described, as well as being simply wrong.

Mummyoflittledragon · 18/06/2021 15:54

Awful awful awful. Vile

deepwatersolo · 18/06/2021 15:56

Sounds like how archaic cultures like the Taliban see women. In those cultures a man does not count as gay if he enjoys sex with a male in the active role. The man in the passive role, however, is devalued, worthless like a woman… (That iranian gays‘ only escape is SRS surgery falls into a similar logic). Oh well…

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