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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I don't much care for the 'gender critical' handle. Is there anything better.

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JustcameoutGC · 04/06/2021 21:12

I am relatively new to the Women's versus trans rights debate. Despite my very lefty leanings, I have ended up on the gender critical side for a few reasons. My training as a scientist, my sense of fairness, my personal reaction to the attempted erasure of language like 'women' and 'mother' and the hideous places that he total enforce t of TWAW takes us.

However, I really don't like the terminology of gender critical feminist. I would much rather be defined by what I do believe in rather that what I am critical of. And I am not critical of gender per se, it is the pseudo religion of gender ideology that I have a beef with.

I know sex is real, and immutable
Sport needs to be fair for it to work
Women on jail need to be free of worry about rape
Women need single sex spaces

Is there a terminology that frames this position in a less negative way than 'gender critical'?

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JustcameoutGC · 04/06/2021 21:50

@RedDeerRunning

'sex reality'
Sorry that sounds like a PS5 game.
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UhtredRagnarson · 04/06/2021 21:52

Apologies- I misread women’s as “women”.

JustcameoutGC · 04/06/2021 21:54

Back to Bamemburg with you.

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FOJN · 04/06/2021 21:55

But once again back to what is a woman?

A woman is an adult human female.

JustcameoutGC · 04/06/2021 21:57

I know that, you know that, but can you be arsed with the debate every time the word is used?

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Cyberworrier · 04/06/2021 21:57

I call it female-centred feminism, as the issues I care about are sex based and concern the female sex. And as you say, the term women has deliberately been obfuscated so that some can claim it doesn’t mean what it does mean. I include transmen in my feminism and want a fair and accepting society for all. I support Fionne etc in advocating for third spaces as a solution.

MarshaBradyo · 04/06/2021 22:01

I call it female-centred feminism, as the issues I care about are sex based and concern the female sex.

I could go with this, not very short but close to what I feel about it

jellyfrizz · 04/06/2021 22:02

@UhtredRagnarson

I am relatively new to the Women's versus trans rights debate.

Interesting way of framing it....

My first thought when reading the OP too. What trans rights are women against?
Totallyrandomname · 04/06/2021 22:03

Is there a reason you want a label?

I think a lot of the words ‘feminist’ ‘radical feminist’ ‘gender critical’....all mean different things to different people. I

I prefer to just say why I think about each topic/issue rather than describe myself with an overarching label.

JustcameoutGC · 04/06/2021 22:04

Like it cyber worrier. Female, definitely less contentious as a word than woman. (We can come back for woman later, I will not abandon her)

Feminism definitely, it is a vital word and act.

Centred, feels very positive and focused.

Best so far.

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FOJN · 04/06/2021 22:04

I know that, you know that, but can you be arsed with the debate every time the word is used?

No, on the issue of how to define a woman I'm very firmly #nodebate.

Radical feminists have always rejected gender nonsense, it's not new. Women and men can describe themselves as gender critical so it's not a uniquely feminist position. Some women describe themselves as feminists but are not gender critical.

ahagwearsapointybonnet · 04/06/2021 22:04

"Proper feminist"? Grin

JustcameoutGC · 04/06/2021 22:06

I didn't say anywhere I was against trans rights. I said there is a clash of trans versus women's rights.

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Totallyrandomname · 04/06/2021 22:08

@JustcameoutGC

I didn't say anywhere I was against trans rights. I said there is a clash of trans versus women's rights.
I think its confusion over how you worded the original post “women’s vs trans rights” rather than woman’s rights vs trans rights.
JustcameoutGC · 04/06/2021 22:09

Really good question @Totallyrandomname. I think I am more uncomfortable with the label I feel I have been given, rather than in desperate need of a label that fits. Quite ironic as I think the need to label has in part got us where we are. I need to chew that over a bit.

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thinkingaboutLangCleg · 04/06/2021 22:09

‘Feminism’ that doesn't centre women isn’t feminism. How can it be? Protecting women’s single-sex spaces is essential. I’m sure there are all kinds of pleasing words for women who prioritise men and think we should let anyone in — but feminist isn’t one of them. So I just call myself a feminist, and explain this if necessary.

Defaultname · 04/06/2021 22:12

As opposed to the Know Nothings (en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Know_Nothing) , it would, indeed, be better to define the Gender Criticals as something that doesn't sound so negative, so tisking.
We know that there are two sexes, that the way each sex behaves is to some extent due to society's norms, and that there's nothing wrong with either sex going against those norms. There's certainly no need to make a Procrustean bed of the human body, stretching bits and chopping some others off so that the person fixing the car or knitting a tea-cosy looks a little more as though they belong to the 'appropriate' sex for those activities (provided you squint a little, and the light's behind them).

We are accepting. We don't have rigid templates of sex-appropriate behaviour.

Not the Know Nothings. More the Genned Up. Geddit? Geddit?

JustcameoutGC · 04/06/2021 22:13

I may have had some Wine apologies if phrasing isn't crystal clear.

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Cyberworrier · 04/06/2021 22:14

See Seren’s tweet - problem is that the wording implies that trans people’s rights at stake in uk. Only rights trans people don’t have is the sex based rights of the opposite sex (in the uk, luckily we are a safe country for trans people in comparison to other places and in comparison to levels of safety for women). Glad you like my wording!

twitter.com/serenstar4/status/1400900959010701312?s=21

vimtosogood · 04/06/2021 22:14

Gender doesn't exist, so gender atheist, or gender realist.

GNCQ · 04/06/2021 22:15

Ooh can I shamelessly link to my own thread? I thought the same as you OP after watching a PP YouTube video. She uses "Femalist" rather than GC Feminist. I think I'll opt for "Feminist" even though the word has been "queered"

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4222602-Femalism-Femalist

AllTheUsernamesAreAlreadyTaken · 04/06/2021 22:15

I describe myself as “a feminist (not the fun kind)”

UhtredRagnarson · 04/06/2021 22:17

@JustcameoutGC

Back to Bamemburg with you.
Grin
littlebillie · 04/06/2021 22:17

Just reading around my mantra will be

"Biology is not bigotry"

JustcameoutGC · 04/06/2021 22:18

So, I think gender does exist in the form of gender stereotypes and expectations. I think gender identity is total bollocks. Maybe we should be gender identity deniers. GIDS. What could go wrong?

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