trans is a fact
In all good faith, I hold the opposite view, although it's very difficult to state it on MN and still stay inside talk guidelines.
I don't dispute the unhappiness people have, either with their bodies or the roles they believe people with their bodies are supposed to perform.
But I don't believe in innate group identities. Ergo, I don't believe in either a female or a male identity. In anyone.
And so far as the people who attempt to alter their healthy bodies to resemble the opposite sex, in service to unhealthy ideas of gender that reside in their minds? I do not think these people are healthy role models.
An actively anorexic person isn't fit to mentor others with the disorder.
An alcoholic person who isn't yet sober cannot help other alcoholics.
Both need to be in full recovery, have renounced their previously unhealthy thinking and habits, and to have come to terms with why they cannot continue to live that way going forwards.
Any person who entreats others to "do as I say, but not as I continue to do" cannot help others.
I don't believe anyone who still clings to "it was and still is the right thing for me" can ever help those who are desperate to believe it will also be the right thing for them too. That they, too, are the exception.
I know others see this differently.
But my honest belief is that altering your body and trying in any way to be anything other than the sex you are, is a form of severe harm. And I cannot condone it, for anyone.