If you’re still on the thread, @willithappen, I’d like to hear a bit more.
I’m a former player, and still have a lot of my former team mates on my Facebook, though I’m not still actively in contact with some of them as our lives have gone in different directions. One of my former playing friends feels as you do, and I am at a loss as to why, and maybe you can help me understand where she’s coming from (I can’t ask her directly, as I have a feeling this relates to a trans family member, and we’re not close enough for me to feel comfortable kicking the hornets nest and upsetting her as she is quite fragile).
When you’re thinking about a transwoman player, what are you visualising? Someone quite feminine? Slightly built?
What is it that you think is positive for women’s rugby that transwomen can bring as a whole, not just for themselves? I’ve heard people refer to increasing inclusion and diversity, but in my experience, women’s rugby teams are already and have for many years been very inclusive of diverse sexualities, backgrounds etc. In fact, it’s always struck me that the men’s game has a lot to learn about this, with its problems with homophobia and endorsing domestic abusers. Don’t you think this is where the work needs to happen?
Would you consider that any of your fellow players objecting would be doing so on legitimate grounds that you would respect, or do you think it can only be out of bigotry?
Why do single sex sports exist, and what is it about someone’s gender identity that makes this not matter, in your view?
Am really interested in this. Thanks, if you feel like answering.