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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

My statement in the House of Lords today

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Glinner · 09/03/2021 19:32

(At least I got it on the record. No-one will ever be able to say I didn't try to fight this crap).

My name is Graham Linehan, I am a writer. I’ve written several comedy programmes, the best-known of which is probably ‘Father Ted’ but I’d ask you today to briefly take me seriously because I believe the stakes could not be higher.

Almost four years ago I saw that feminists were being bullied, harassed and silenced for standing up for their rights and their children's rights. I decided to use my platform on Twitter to bring attention to what seemed to be an all-out assault on women, on their words, their dignity and their safety. Also, I saw that vulnerable children were being fast-tracked onto a medical pathway that carried severe long-term implications. My position is very simple. I believe everyone should be allowed to talk about these issues. In fact, I believe it is a moral imperative that we do so.

I am talking about such matters as... the scandals at the Tavistock, the confusing and misleading advice that Stonewall has been providing to institutions all over the UK regarding the nature of the equalities act, the issue of men in women’s sports, in women’s prisons, their rape crisis centres, the destruction of basic safeguarding principles that has led to all this, and the silencing and abuse of feminists, doctors, teachers, academics and writersanyone, in factwho questions the fashionable American orthodoxy of gender identity ideology.

For engaging in this debate, I have been the subject of a series of harassment campaigns, including vexatious legal actions, police visits, magazine articles misrepresenting my positions, threatening letters hand-delivered to my home, my wife’s business address released online...anything and everything has been tried to silence me and prevent people from hearing the reasonable fears many women have about the impact of this ideology on their sex-based rights. I have also lost work. As a result of my sudden financial insecurity, my marriage was placed under such a severe strain that my wife and I finally agreed to separate.

Believe me, I would rather be writing a farce than living through one. But this is a very dangerous farce, one in which children's health and happiness are gambled on an ideology that makes no sense, and yet is zealously and obsessively policed by misogynistic activists on platforms that empower them just as they disempower the women they abuse.

But it’s not just the platforms or their users who are preventing a debate. Around three years ago, I was among the initial signatories of a letter to Stonewall asking them to help lower the toxicity of the conversation around sex and gender and acknowledge the plurality of views on the subject. The letter was composed by Jonny Best, a gay man and longtime LGBT activist, and the majority of these initial signatories were either gay, lesbian or trans.

We wanted to see an end to women receiving death and rape threats for standing up for their sex-based rights. To that end, we asked Stonewall to commit to fostering an atmosphere of respectful debate, rather than demonising as transphobic those who wished to discuss or dissent from Stonewall’s current policies. Stonewall flatly refused this appeal within the day, and continued to dishonestly frame women standing up for their rights as an attack on trans rights. The petition has since been signed by over 11,000 people, many of them gay men and women in despair at what is being done in their name.

JK Rowling is only the latest and most high-profile figure to suffer the consequences of this fundamentalist view of the issue-- the magazine Pink News, which is partly funded by Google, ran 42 stories on her in a single week, that’s six stories a day. But there are thousands more women, who are bullied and slandered and harassed into silence. These women – and they are mostly women – are not famous and so even more vulnerable to the smear campaigns and targeted harassment that JK Rowling and myself have endured.

And to briefly pause here, does anyone present know what JK Rowling said that was transphobic? Can anyone produce any transphobic statements by her? You cannot, because there are none. As a survivor of domestic abuse, she wrote movingly about the importance of single-sex spaces to vulnerable women and children, she complained about the erasure of the word ’woman’ in many areas of civic life, and she pointed out, correctly in my view, that we are living through the misogynistic period we have ever experienced.

In place of evidence of her supposed transphobia, we have hundreds if not thousands of youtube stars, Twitter trolls, mainstream media outletsincluding the BBC spreading a poisonous lie intended to blacken her name and serve as a warning to the women who might otherwise find the courage to echo her concerns.

This silencing of women was the main reason I entered this fight. I knew the subject of gender was fraught but I’m political by nature and I couldn’t remain quiet in the face of such vicious misogyny. I presumed that when others saw what was happening that they too would speak up and we would be able to force the debate our opponents were so desperate to avoid.

I now realise that I was up against a much bigger beast than I thought. These platforms shape the debate and declare you untouchable when you refuse to play by their rules. The upshot is that many people presume that I am a bigot. These people also presume the same of JK Rowling and many other left-leaning, liberal and progressive women.

If you believe that JK Rowling is transphobic, a woman who has devoted her work and much of her fortune to the vulnerable, the bullied, the forgotten and the abused, then you are under a spell. If you believe that men can fairly compete against women in their sportsincluding contact sports then you are under a spell. If you believe that men will not go to the most extreme lengths to gain access to women and children, then you are under a spell. If you believe that children as young as three years old can agree to a procedure that puts them on a medical pathway for life, that arrests their natural puberty, and that has almost no scientific proof as to its efficacy as a treatment for dysphoria, then you are under a spell.

Social media has created a through the looking glass world which is robbing everyone of their ability to think. My final statement on Twitter, the straw that broke the camel’s back, was simply “Men are not women.” A world where statements like “Men are not women” is hate speech is a world on the brink of chaos. Feminists are just the canary in the coalmine in this upside-down world where public discourse depends on the whims of a small group of men in Silicon Valley. Gender identity ideology began in American Universities, is uncritically disseminated by the popular media, but social media companies and their users are the enforcers.

People do not understand the extent to which they have been indoctrinated by this ideology. Women who oppose it are trying desperately to be heard. Helen, who is here with me today is only one example of thousands. I have heard from young lesbians who are frightened that their sexuality will have them labelled transphobic, I have heard from therapists unable to tell distraught children that their favourite author does not want them dead, I’ve heard from detransitioners who tell of young women being groomed by older men in trans youth groups.

The reason you have not heard the things that I have heard is that the discourse is being shaped by trans rights activists. In place of reasoned arguments and democratic discussion, we have mantras like “No debate” and “Transwomen are women”, we have policies passing by stealth, we have bogus statistics about trans murder epidemics and we have the unconscionable weaponising of suicide for political ends.

The discourse is broken. Women’s rights are being stripped away, our children are not safe, and we are not allowed to talk about it.

Once again, thank you for giving us the opportunity to address this today and I would be happy to answer any questions that you have.

OP posts:
Cuesday · 09/03/2021 20:58

Great speech. So impressed you've kept going under so much stress and for so long.

mum2jakie · 09/03/2021 20:59

Thank you for putting your head above the parapet - again and again and again. Real commitment and integrity, thank you.

AlwaysColdHands · 09/03/2021 20:59

So very grateful to you, on behalf of myself and my daughters.

Blahblahblahhhh · 09/03/2021 21:00

Thank you so much for standing up for us!

Cheermonger · 09/03/2021 21:00

Thanks. Sincerely am grateful x

purplebutterflybiscuits · 09/03/2021 21:02

Thank you!

Jedstre · 09/03/2021 21:02

Thank you.

imsorryihaventaclue · 09/03/2021 21:02

Thank you doesn’t really touch the sides... I am deeply grateful for your courage and for taking this stand and speaking out. I too am sorry it has cost you so dearly.

NotMeekNotObedient · 09/03/2021 21:03

Thank you

daisypond · 09/03/2021 21:03

Thank you

dinosaurtin · 09/03/2021 21:03

Thank you Graham. That is such a beautiful and articulate speech. I’m sorry it has come at such a personal cost. I support you and all that you and others like you do. Reasonable debate will hopefully come back to this area soon.

Etinox · 09/03/2021 21:03

@PositiveNegative

Thank you also. I too cannot speak to anyone except my DH about this. We are personally and socially silenced. Thank you for putting all of that 'on the record'.
This. Thank you for speaking.
Xoxoxoxoxoxox · 09/03/2021 21:04

Thankyou really great speech, Bought you a Brew

TheFnozwhowasmirage · 09/03/2021 21:04

Thank you both. Today has been a good day.

MsMoppet · 09/03/2021 21:05

Thank you for standing up for us and our daughters.

Xenia · 09/03/2021 21:05

Freedom of speech is very very important on this and other issues. I want people whose views I hate to be free to express them. Yet we seem to have moved into a McCarthy era where a careless tweet costs people their jobs. We seem to have moved from a Western world of tolerance of difference, whether that be a Labour or Tory voter or whatever to a world where unless you have the one right view you will not be allowed to keep your job.

We all need to stand up for this.

As mumsnet is one of the very very few places on line where mostly women post rather than being dominated it is a rare place where women can talk about the trans issue (and other women's issues) without being drowned out by men or without being told their views are hate speech. Well done to MN too and to those who litigated today and won for women on the census issue.

SylHellais · 09/03/2021 21:05

Completely agree.

FingernailNibbler · 09/03/2021 21:08

Thank you so much, Graham! DaffodilBrew You've spoken eloquently and passionately on behalf of women and girls for years. I appreciate it so much! Biscuit

Annasgirl · 09/03/2021 21:08

Thank you Graham. I’m sorry that you have lost so much. You are so inspiring, I often feel overwhelmed by the challenge but your words keep me going.

Blackberrycream · 09/03/2021 21:09

I think Xenia summed that up nicely.
Thank you to everybody speaking up.

SilverGlassHare · 09/03/2021 21:11

Thank you Graham!

ScoldsBridle · 09/03/2021 21:11

Graham you’re going to be caffeined out your brain Grin

Honestly that was so well written and knowing that your articulate, measured statement is on the record should be a source of enormous pride to you. I am so sorry that your involvement in this issue has cost you so much. Your refusal to be cowed or just to throw up your hands and say ‘fuck the lot of you’ is also a testament to your commitment. I know some people will seek to dismiss this thread by saying we’re ‘fan-girling’ over you but I’ve never fan-girled over a man in my life - I just recognise when a person is standing up for their beliefs and prepared to stick their heads above the parapet.

I have tried to walk away from this issue and stop myself from talking about it but I can’t. I cannot allow myself to give up fighting for my sex. Thanks once again for committing to record your thoughts and be comforted by the fact that, in the future, it will be read by many as the piece of utter sanity that it truly is.

Thank you.

EthelMerman · 09/03/2021 21:11

@SirVixofVixHall

Can someone pm me how to buy Graham a coffee ( or a Guinness) 🙂
Flowers @glinner

Yes if someone could PM me too with this.

I try to discuss this with my son (happens he is gay) but he is not open to the viewpoint of an actual woman. I’m not transphobic.
We need to have proper and open conversations.

Radio4Rocks · 09/03/2021 21:11

Thanks for all you do.

MissFire17 · 09/03/2021 21:11

Thank you, Glinner!