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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Alice Thomson in the Times today

77 replies

McDuffy · 28/10/2020 07:06

All I can say is thank goodness for the comments

Let’s focus on real threats women face today

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/6a8f336a-1895-11eb-a714-6e13d8ca860f?shareToken=5f80009bd7d0b12c2e40295b09438dd4

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Escapeplanning · 28/10/2020 08:43

Alice ignores or doesn't understand that women are already working on the things she talks about, for many it's a full time job and career.

Callmejudith · 28/10/2020 08:50

I only got half way through - what an idiot

Alltheprettyseahorses · 28/10/2020 08:50

I think there's an interesting contrast between Alice's professed comfort with the idea of unisex spaces, which I personally feel to be redolent with comfortable middle-class smugness at her implied insulation from adverse consequences, and the reality of today's judicial review of males in women's prisons and the horrendous attacks women prisoners have suffered because of it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/10/2020 08:51

But she was wrong to say it’s like Gilead and women can’t mention the trans debate: it’s all over the media virtually every day.

Look at what happened to Rosie, whose awful treatment she herself acknowledges, for "mentioning the trans debate". I'm sure if it were a different Labour leader, she'd have been investigated, disciplined, silenced, expelled. Women have been sacked or deplatformed for their comments, while TRAs and their supporters have got away with vile misogyny.

StandUpStraight · 28/10/2020 08:52

Floisme I think you are always admirably clear and do a very good job of articulating why this matters. I am afraid Alice Thomson is just not very bright. Not the first time I’ve read one of her articles and thought that her powers of critical thinking were seriously lacking.

TheMerrickBoy · 28/10/2020 08:55

How does she not get it - on the one hand, women are getting all het up about nothing, and it doesn't matter if they aren't allowed a word to define themselves. On the other, let's focus on maternity - I mean, you do know this is the kind of word we're being told we can't use any more, right?

highame · 28/10/2020 09:04

Times balance methinks. However, if you put Alice against Janice, it looks more like SpongeBob vs. Einstein. Bit unkind but Alice get a grip, get those braincells working, or you'll become an embarrassment to our sex

Datun · 28/10/2020 09:04

There seem to be a lot of women who are still under the 'Jo Swinson' impression.

A sort of eye rolly well we all know what a woman is, don't we? We know. It's obvious. Everyone knows. The fact that we can't just blurt it out, doesn't mean that we don't all know exactly who is a woman, does it? It's not really erasure. Because we do know.

But yes, Alice, it is erasure. In language, in law and in politics.

It really, really is. Don't just hand wave away Tampax' craven bowing to an ideology that erases the word woman, as insignificant. This isn't a one off. It's not irrelevant. It's a symptom, among thousands of other symptoms, exactly the same.

You go online and say a woman is an adult human female, and see what happens.

Go on Alice. Put your money where your mouth is.

Try it.

McDuffy · 28/10/2020 09:09

Love it, Datun Grin
Yes, you first, Alice. Let us know how it goes.

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RoyalCorgi · 28/10/2020 09:12

I think there's an interesting contrast between Alice's professed comfort with the idea of unisex spaces, which I personally feel to be redolent with comfortable middle-class smugness at her implied insulation from adverse consequences, and the reality of today's judicial review of males in women's prisons and the horrendous attacks women prisoners have suffered because of it.

Exactly. It fascinates me that so many women, including ones with a higher education, are incapable of thinking beyond their own personal experience. Yes, you may be comfortable with having male-bodied people in your changing room, but do you think that applies to all women? What about women who have been sexually assaulted? What about Muslim or Jewish women whose religion forbids them baring their flesh in front of a man? What about teenage girls - should they be forced to share changing room space with male-bodied adults?

And then of course as you say there are the issues of prisons and other places housing vulnerable women, such as domestic violence shelters. But Alice will never be in those places, so they don't matter.

BernardBlackMissesLangCleg · 28/10/2020 09:14

Oh that's brilliant Datun

such a good test. Are you willing to tweet in your own name that a woman is an adult human female?

if not, why not?

Datun · 28/10/2020 09:15

@McDuffy

Love it, Datun Grin Yes, you first, Alice. Let us know how it goes.
Indeed. And if she has pause for thought and decides it's probably not a good idea then yes she's bloody living in Gilead.

If you can't publicly state a fact about what a woman actually is, but can only imply it with frantic eye rolls, yes it's Gilead.

HecatesCats · 28/10/2020 09:19

Spot on Datun

BernardBlackMissesLangCleg · 28/10/2020 09:21

to be fair, before I decided that twitter needed to be set in fire and shot into space, I have tweeted the equivalent of that many times in my own name, but

  1. I'm nobody much
  2. I didn't half get a lot of shit for it
Whatwouldscullydo · 28/10/2020 09:24

Always someone to tell us there are more important things to worry about.

Are men guilty into staying quiet until long lists of other issues are sorted out and they are allowed to work on something else?

Why do women have to sit by and watch until someone decides its an appetite to speak up Confused

Whatwouldscullydo · 28/10/2020 09:24

Appropriate time

Stuoid phone

Babdoc · 28/10/2020 09:33

If Janice Turner is on MN and reading this - please, Janice, take your poor dim colleague aside and give her a crash course in feminism 1.01!

KiposWonderbeasts · 28/10/2020 09:55

Those comments are brilliant.

No one is buying that hand-wavey nonsense you’re pedalling, Alice.

AnyOldPrion · 28/10/2020 10:03

I don’t understand though why there is this ‘have the backs’ of youths. Since when has any age group been homogeneous and when have they had all the answers?

And why should women “have the back” of all youths? Surely even in youth, feminists should have the back of girls and young women? I speak as the mother of a young lesbian, who is no longer “live and let live” about the men invading her spaces.

IDanielRadcliffe · 28/10/2020 10:04

Our kimono fox friend has replied in agreement on Twitter which tells you all you need to know.

AvocadoBathroom · 28/10/2020 10:08

Exhausting isn't it? She spectacularly misses the point over and over again and her obvious contempt (thinly veiled jealousy?) for JK Rowling is absurd.

Winesalot · 28/10/2020 10:26

AnyOldPrion

Same here.

BettyFilous · 28/10/2020 10:33

Alice is late to the party. She doesn’t realise we did “be niiiiice” and hand-wringing in 2018 and are so over it now and out the other side. People who are coming to this late always underestimate how angry women who have been following it closely are about this now.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/10/2020 10:36

So true, Betty.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/10/2020 10:37

Except the Fox-Nemesis said that there was a lot he didn't agree with so it obviously didn't scold enough for his liking.

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