My god these are naive?!!!
A few particularly bothered me:
You can reasonably assume that your ability to acquire a job, rent an apartment, or secure a loan will not be denied on the basis of your gender identity/expression. No, as a female you can assume that your ability to get a job WILL be affected by your gender identity and you will be paid less than a man.
You can flirt, engage in courtship, or form a relationship and not fear that your biological status may be cause for rejection or attack, nor will it cause your partner to question their sexual orientation. No, as female you are at high risk of sexual assault and if people can say you ‘flirted’ then the courts will downplay the seriousness and suggest you brought it on yourself.
If you end up in the emergency room, you do not have to worry that your gender will keep you from receiving appropriate treatment or that all of your medical issues will be seen as a result of your gender. No, medicine has been primarily designed for a male adult. As a female you should assume that it is entirely likely that you will not receive as appropriate treatment as an equivalent male.
Your identity was not formally (until 2013) considered a mental pathology (“gender identity disorder” in the DSM IV) by the psychological and medical establishments, and still pathologized by the public. But until recently, if you are female, you were considered to be property and your reports of actual sexual assault were taken as evidence of delusional thinking. Plus if you got depressed at your own subjugation you were given lots of meds in order to help you adjust to the status quo which was favouring males.
You don’t need to worry about being placed in a sex-segregated detention center, holding facility, jail, or prison that is incongruent with your identity. But as a female you do need to worry about being in a confinement with a person who presents as a male and therefore triggers a lot of abuse memories and concerns.
You are not required to undergo an extensive psychological evaluation in order to receive basic medical care. But due to financial disadvantage, as a female, you are less likely to receive basic medical care
If you are murdered (or have any crime committed against you), your gender expression will not be used as a justification for your murder (“gay panic”), nor as a reason to coddle the perpetrators. Instead, if you are female, there are lots of other justifications for your murder including ‘rough sex’.
You can easily find role models and mentors to emulate who share your identity. No, as a female there are very spares numbers of role models due to exclusion of females from public authority and extremely limited celebration of achievements of females.
Hollywood accurately depicts people of your gender in films and television, without tokenizing your identity as the focus of a dramatic storyline or the punchline of a joke. Females in Hollywood must be pretty and slim or they will be punchlines of a joke. At all points you must expect your breasts to be on show and to wear heels which hurt your feet. If you don’t have this sort of body naturally you can develop an eating disorder or have expensive and painful surgery to try and achieve it
You can purchase shoes that fit your gender expression without having to order them in special sizes or asking someone to custom-make them. No, as a female you have a glut of choices of painful and hard to walk in shoes. It is much harder to buy comfortable shoes and very hard for women with larger feet to buy anything as they often have to resort to buying shoes designed for males (who usually have wider feet).
You can go places with friends on a whim knowing there will be bathrooms there you can use. And as a female you can queue for 10 times as long as a male for these bathrooms and feel at risk of assault in many of them.
You don’t have to convince your parents of your true gender and/or have to earn your parents’ and siblings’ love and respect all over again because of your gender identity. And as a female you may never get respect regardless of gender identity.
You don’t have to remind your extended family over and over to use proper gender pronouns (e.g., after transitioning). So as a female you can focus your time on reminding your family not to call grown women ‘girls’, not to re-enact sexist stereotypes and expect you to do all the housework and child-care and be happy to change your name.
You don’t have to deal with old photographs that do not reflect who you truly are. Really!!!! Did you see what I was dressed in as a little girl?????