Have just caught up with this thread - massive appreciation of the hard work done by @RedToothBrush for their breakdown, and also for the info about Ethiopia etc.
Am also reassured by others confirming I'm not alone in my feelings which I posted last night.
I have been looking into so much stuff over the last few days that are essentially dismissed as conspiracy theory territory, even when supported by actual documented evidence, and a common thread of them all is that it is largely women and children of both sexes who are the victims / survivors.
It is interesting that even when clear patterns are identifiable, the overall message is that because we are evolutionarily wired to see patterns as part of instinctive risk assessment, it just indicates confirmation bias - it all gets bounced back as some kind pf psychological failing on the part of the observer aka you can't trust what your eyes, brain and ears are telling you even when it is blatantly true.
Don't get me wrong, I absolutely believe that evidence is important, and that some wilder theories are more than likely not true - but they should be properly, transparently debunked, not just have the "you must be mentally ill if you think that" - which is what dictatorships and the Eastern Bloc did very successfully. That immediately shuts down these things through fear, and makes the initial suspicions loom larger IMHO.
I am wary of large charities myself because of much is what is written here, and from hearing the experiences of friends who have worked in charity shops etc.
There is a saying "just because you're paranoid it doesn't mean they aren't out to get you" - which again, sounds utterly tin foil hat. I do wonder though, I do wonder.......