Facebook friend and trans rant

[Leflic]

I’m not supposed to be controversial on FB as it’s sensitive to my job ( child related). One of my gay male friends is having a massive pro trans rant specifically about JK R.

I’m finding it hard to not say something as I think we should challenge the nonsense. Any ideas of what I coukd counteract with that’s not transphobic in case he screenshots to employers?

I was thinking; “how are you defining woman? “ and leave it there.

How about just: 'I haven't had time to read her post - what did she say?'

Yes, for anyone else this is perfect. Good job unfriending him OP. I had a realisation that this guy I defriended would have seen all my public posts and Facebook posts for years, which freaked me out.

I think you did the right thing in not risking your job. If it was me I would just grey rock him. Don't respond to anything he posts, don't give him likes. If pushed, pretend you haven't seen any of it. Unfriend him on Facebook and if he catches on and challenges you over it, just pretend it's a glitch. Refriend to get him off your back, then unfriend again. Keep repeating until he's no longer an online presence in your life.

My experience of these people is that they're always far more obnoxious online than they are in reality. In real life they come across as bullying and over invested, and if you hold the line of normie bafflement and make them actually say what they mean in plain English, they struggle. There's just something about telling people "woman is a feeling" or "lesbians should learn to like penis" in real life that doesn't go down well.

I can't think what it is.