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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lib Dem’s at it again

39 replies

Kit19 · 18/06/2020 15:40

Fortunately they’re an irrelevance now

www.libdemwomen.org.uk/government_single_sex_space_bill_statement

Simply bizzare!

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FFSFFSFFS · 18/06/2020 15:48

It's not a very robust line of argument to take is it?

  • the new argument that there shouldn't be women only toilets because women will get harassed (!!??)
  • that men can do it anyway by being cleaners - certainly I have always seen signs when there is a male cleaner or the cleaner will knock and announce himself.

Its just so awful for them to tie themselves into knots to appease men.

Collidascope · 18/06/2020 15:48

"Liberal Democrat Women strongly reject the apparent proposals which would restrict the ability of trans women to use women’s single-sex spaces."

"Experience where such bills have been debated and implemented shows that any woman who does not conform to someone else’s idea of what a woman should look or sound like will be subject to challenge. Such legislation, if implemented, is almost always reversed quickly because of the effects on all women."

Am I missing something?? Isn't the whole point that new laws aren't going to be implemented? That institutions got ahead of themselves and started acting as though new laws had gone through when they hadn't?
So talking about implementing new bills is nonsense. These are the same laws that have been in places for years, surely.

moggiemonster · 18/06/2020 15:50

This is the subject of a non debate on a local women’s fab group. Our tame Lib Dem councillor and pals are spouting this line, but it isn’t about discriminating against ugly women (basically what they implied by saying non feminine looking) and trans women.

It has made me so depressed, be kind is the mantra. The whole issue of male violence driving women’s fear and trans women’s understandable reluctance to use the gents is ignored. Trans men must be fine as nobody seems to give a hoot about them, who probably set off the same buttons which drive some men to attack feminine looking men.

Nobody seems to realise it will be the ultimate end of female categories for sport, stem scholarship etc.But the Lib Dem’s want to be kind.

Only positive is now my husband has finally got my anger and now realises the mess unfolding. I can’t believe our councillor is so blinkered.

Kit19 · 18/06/2020 15:55

Experience where such bills have been debated and implemented shows that any woman who does not conform to someone else’s idea of what a woman should look or sound like will be subject to challenge

I cant believe they are still trying to push the "it's impossible to tell the difference between a butch woman and a man" line

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ErrolTheDragon · 18/06/2020 15:56

But the Lib Dem’s want to be kind.

Ask them what they're doing to 'be kind' to girls. Girls forced to share loos and changing rooms with male pupils, and shamed if they don't meekly go along with it. Girls losing their places on sports teams, or being put off doing sports.

Stay with that line and don't let them off the hook.

SarahTancredi · 18/06/2020 16:06

So suddenly they care about lesbians?

A few months ago they were implying that because black women and lesbians were allowed in the toilets/changing rooms, the definition of woman was now so muddled the next logical step was to allow self identifying males in.

Like fuck do they now give a shit about lesbians

Fuck off

Shedbuilder · 18/06/2020 16:06

Experience where such bills have been debated and implemented shows that any woman who does not conform to someone else’s idea of what a woman should look or sound like will be subject to challenge. Such legislation, if implemented, is almost always reversed quickly because of the effects on all women. Lesbian women have many stories of how they have been discriminated against and subjected to violence in women’s facilities, simply because of their appearance

Is any word of that true or accurate? Has there been any debate about such bills? When and where? How did the debate 'show' that women who don't conform to female stereotypes will be challenged? Aren't they already challenged? (I certainly have a 6ft tall lesbian friend with very short hair who is sometimes challenged and doesn't regards it as a problem. The only people who do regard it as a problem are men trying to pass as women.

Is such legislation almost always reversed quickly? I'm a lesbian and I know loads of lesbians and I can't think of a single one who's been subject to violence in when using women's facilities.

Where is their evidence? Who are they speaking to? Hmm. [Chin-stroke] Could it be transwomen?

merrymouse · 18/06/2020 16:06

"Liberal Democrat Women strongly reject the apparent proposals which would restrict the ability of trans women to use women’s single-sex spaces."

What proposals? I didn't think new legislation was being introduced?

Why would any man try to declare themselves to be a woman in order to access a woman only space, when it would be easier to simply put on a hi-vis jacket and grab a mop or a pair of pliers?

This is particularly alarming. They could suggest that unisex toilets can be designed so they are safer for everyone, but no, they use the 'women will be attacked anyway' line.

WhereYouLeftIt · 18/06/2020 16:11

They're making a lot of claims in that little announcement - none of which I see being backed by any concrete evidence.

Experience where such bills have been debated and implemented
Which bills? In this country? When? Point me to the Hansard record.
Other countries? Where and when? Records of the debate/implementation?
And whose experience are we talking about? Can they be trusted or do they have an agenda?

Such legislation, if implemented, is almost always reversed quickly because of the effects on all women.
Again, which countries and when? Why not tell me this up-front, why make me wonder where/when you're talking about? Leaves me suspecting the answer is nowhere/never.

Lesbian women have many stories of how they have been discriminated against and subjected to violence in women’s facilities, simply because of their appearance.
How prevalent is this? Did it happen before we realised we had to be alert to males appearing in female spaces? Can you cite an example? A court case of an assault? (Not saying it never happens, but I need to see more than a vague assertion.)

It's a tactic I am increasingly irritated by. Assert something as fact but don't provide the details that allow the assertion to be verified. Lots of people would actually trust them to not lie, and accept the assertions as fact. I'm cynical. I know people lie, and until they give me proof, I think they're lying, start to finish, here.

dayoftheclownfish · 18/06/2020 16:12

I think it's hilarious how they try to whip up a moral panic about men in hi-vis jackets, mops and pliers or unfeminine women being booted out of public lavatories.

For the umpteenth time, the issue is not really about toilets but about sports, prisons, all-women shortlists and some kind of intellectual integrity which, if you have it, means that you have to accept that transmen will be different from men and transwomen will be different from women and the law has to reflect that, even if this hurts somebody's feelings. This is also about sex-based protections for transmen!

It's just such bullshit.

FantaOra · 18/06/2020 16:13

There are not many lines of truth in that are there?

So embarrassed that I ever voted for them.

GrimDamnFanjo · 18/06/2020 16:15

They are an embarrassment. I won't be rejoining any time soon?

wellbehavedwomen · 18/06/2020 16:18

Some trans women ARE dangerous males. No more than any other group of male people, but no less. Lying about that just isn't going to work any more. There are the news stories and the statistical data to prove it.

If you create a safeguarding gap, predators will use it. We know that. We also know that grabbing a high vis jacket and mop in order to claim to be an employee is a great deal trickier to get away with, if police are called, than declaring one believes oneself to be a woman. The former can be easily proven, one way or the other. The latter can't ever, in any way at all.

How stupid are the people writing this guff? Do they engage brains at all, when given the talking points?

I also note they focus on loos, and ignore women's refuges, prisons, shared sleeping accommodation and rape crisis centres.

merrymouse · 18/06/2020 16:19

Lesbian women have many stories of how they have been discriminated against and subjected to violence in women’s facilities, simply because of their appearance.

This seems very odd. Lesbian women do not look male. They might not choose to look 'feminine', but that is not the same as looking male.

If it were that easy to look male, life would be a lot easier or most women!

wellbehavedwomen · 18/06/2020 16:20

I know, it's insanely bigoted, isn't it?

ALL LESBIANS ARE UGLY AND LOOK LIKE MEN!

Thanks for that, Lib Dems. Your tolerance and lack of bigotry is duly noted.

donquixotedelamancha · 18/06/2020 16:21

Am I missing something?? Isn't the whole point that new laws aren't going to be implemented?

You are not missing anything but whoever wrote that is.

Liberal Democrat Women strongly reject the apparent proposals

Yeah, coz that's how parliament works- someone just vaguely says we should discuss such and such, there is a vote and boom, new laws.

That how they were able to get Brexit sorted on a Tuesday afternoon three years ago.

ThePurported · 18/06/2020 16:26

I was a member since Charles Kennedy's days until recently. They really are a lost cause, the party for pimps, punters and people who believe in lady brain/man brain. Oh, and manufacturers of puberty blockers.
Best leave them to it and hope that it acts as fly paper to clear out these types from other political parties!

merrymouse · 18/06/2020 16:28

I also note they focus on loos, and ignore women's refuges, prisons, shared sleeping accommodation and rape crisis centres.

If they shared half a brain cell, they would be saying that toilet provision for many groups is inadequate, particularly people with disabilities, and its also often unsafe. They could campaign for more, better designed unisex toilets, and point out that these would be useful for many different groups, including parents of opposite sex children.

Unfortunately they lack even half a brain cell (and can't write either. A man/self, men/selves).

HollowTalk · 18/06/2020 16:33

I've been so disappointed in the Lib Dems. At a time when Labour and the Tories were doing really badly, the Lib Dems had every chance of gaining the centre ground. But no, they jumped onto a bandwagon and ensured they'd never hold a position of power again.

I couldn't remember the name of that Lib Dem guy who said he was a woman and a furry something or other, and tried to google to find his name, but there were too many other Lib Dem paedophiles and sex offenders and even one who punched his 87 year old mother for me to find him.

How anyone voted for them in the last election is beyond me.

334bu · 18/06/2020 16:33

mobile.twitter.com/LibDemWomen/status/1273502278906007552
Also on Twitter.

merrymouse · 18/06/2020 16:36

I think they mean 'government's planned single sex space bill' is a myth.

The legislation already exists.

wellbehavedwomen · 18/06/2020 16:58

If they shared half a brain cell, they would be saying that toilet provision for many groups is inadequate, particularly people with disabilities, and its also often unsafe. They could campaign for more, better designed unisex toilets, and point out that these would be useful for many different groups, including parents of opposite sex children.

Yes! I've been saying this for a while. Why not campaign for Changing Places equipped loos that are genuinely nice, so there are 2 disabled loos available, both pleasant unisex provision? (I've been places that have those smaller loos for kids, too, as the adult size are just grim for them to manage.) They are brilliant for all manner of groups. Trans/NB people, families with opposite sex kids, carers with opposite sex employers, and disabled people. Huge change for the better for all concerned. But no. That doesn't seem worthwhile. Bullying women does instead. That's the hill they are choosing to die on, via lies, misinformation, and stupidity.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 18/06/2020 17:19

Layla Moran can "demand" whatever she likes, doesn't mean Truss has to comply. Pink News can always write another 57 articles about it though

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 18/06/2020 17:21

Also, you know what's not very kind? Telling butch women that nobody looking at them can tell that they're women. That's not very kind at all, LibDems.

ThinEndoftheWedge · 18/06/2020 17:25

Also, you know what's not very kind? Telling butch women that nobody looking at them can tell that they're women. That's not very kind at all, LibDems.

Butch women are women - and therefore in the LibDem category of person - under ‘don’t give a fuck about’

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