There is a fundraiser about this man
au.gofundme.com/f/help-a-crushed-veteran-with-ptsd-and-his-family
You can find out quite a lot about the therapy he has had from clicking on the "more information" tabs
I'm in a mad hurry as usual but some things for readers to be aware of
He is claiming, and is backed up by his therapist, that he committed the assaults on his wife while in a dissociated state.
While dissociation is real, I know having experienced it myself, there is a tendency for some mental health professionals to encourage clients to avoid taking responsibility for their actions by attributing their misdeeds to "split off" parts of themselves that they claim are a symptom of dissociative disorders.
I have bitter personal experience of witnessing this in a therapy group where women who had harmed children were invited to feel better about themselves by recovering memories of abuse and encouraging them to believe that their abusive or negligent actions were the result of dissociative states, thus rendering them not culpable.
These split off parts, sometimes referred to as "alters" or just "parts" feature in the iatrogenic condition known as dissociatie identity disorder formerly known as mutiple personality disorder.
The multiple selves featuring in DID/MPD have many similarities to the multipe selves that feature in discourses around non-binary and gender fluid identities, where people claim to be a man one minute, a woman the next and a child on another occasion.
As I have written about here before some of the same mental health organisations promoting DID/MPD also promote gender identity narratives that feature multiple selves.
I do belive that we let down our service men and women by not providing adequate therapy when they suffer from ongoing trauma.
I do appreciate that some traumatised service men and women can develop challenging and violent behaviour if they are not given adequate therapy of a high quality.
The fact is that the current provision of mental health services to traumatised people, including rape survivors and current and former service men and women is inadequate and, when offered it is often dangerous and comes with a significant risk of memory contamination.
Obviously I cannot comment on absolutely all the services everywhere in the UK, but there is a very significant problem in my experience.
This is a complex issue, however I am extremely sceptical about using split off, dissociated parst of the self as a way of obtaining a "get out of jail free" card for abusers.