My friend's daughter (15) wants to transition to male. About a year ago they started attending a Youth Club for children in this situation. My friend literally had the door pushed in her face on the first occasion she took them there. She was told no parents, we have children here who don't feel comfortable dressing in a different gender in front of adults, so we respect their privacy.
She didn't meet any of the people her daughter went on to discuss life changing issues with. I don't think she knows who any of them are, what their backgrounds are. I asked her at the time about safeguarding, if they had undergone DBR checks etc? She looked at me like I was being unkind and suspicious. Her answer was oh I'm sure they're all ok, they're all people who've been through the same thing.
Whoever said this thread would make the hair on the back of your neck stand up was bang on. That one situation above raises more red flags than a whole parade's worth of bunting. This is what happens when it's collectively decided that some demographics should be exempt from safeguarding. It's dangerous. The adults working with those kids might be fine, but they might not, and the way it's set up nobody would know they're not until a child is harmed. The situation itself is modeling dangerous behavior and poor boundaries, and could lead the kids into other unsafe situations. Every single person who signed off on that is, bluntly, an idiot, and should not be given any further responsibility for the wellbeing of children.
I think one of the problems some have with this is that they expect safeguarding to be instinctive and feel comfortable, but if you yourself didn't grow up with excellent boundaries then it's not. There's a whole lot of stuff that used to be taken for granted and accepted that isn't any more precisely because after Sotham and Saville some very intelligent people went through the factors that make it possible for predators to access kids piece by piece and put new rules in place based on what they found. If you grew up prior to that, those rules won't be the same as the ones you grew up with. This is a good thing. The old rules didn't work, and lots of kids were harmed. So now there's an effort to close the loopholes that allow predators to operate and keep kids safer, but it's being constantly undermined by people going "Well that doesn't feel necessary" and "I'm sure X is fine, they always seemed nice to me" and "isn't being suspicious of someone who's from Protected Group Y bigoted?" even though the same suspicion is being applied to literally every single other adult who has contact with children. And so bit by bit the framework is eroded, and if it carries on like that we'll be back to the 70s. Which nobody who cares about child welfare should want.