I've long said that I found old fashioned racism easier to deal with - say from the 80s. It was more like being questioned for the colour of your skin and things people associated with culture. But it seems to me, you answered the questions, people felt assured I wasn't "different", and then moved on and accepted me as English. Now it's "you are a minority, so you SHOULD think this way".
Recently I'm thinking the old fashioned sexism, much as I hate it, was easier to deal with that the kind of misogyny masquerading as something else.
And suddenly I am finding myself understanding why people voted for Trump. Initially I was horrified. But if it's really the case that TW can access women's domestic violence centres, that it's accepted widely that TWAW, that I am a TERF for worrying about mixed sex wards, that Elizabeth Warren and other politicians are so happy and excited about children having medical treatment based on sex stereotypes...
I think I now prefer old fashioned sexism too. It's so fucking depressing. How did we get here? Where "grab her by the pussy" is a better option than anything else?
and also I'm wondering...has anyone else felt this way about Trump and America? I used to spend a bit of time over there for work (c 20 years ago). Sounds like another planet from what I hear now.