@Justhadathought yes, you are probably right. Extremely feminist is ridiculous. I met him and spent 2.5 hours over a long lunch during a conference chatting to him.
I was impressed by his knowledge of female issues, of the struggles women face, of the inequity.
I came away that day thinking that this was a man I could vote for. Well, now I can.
He is a nice, thoughtful man who actually listens, not pretends to listen, but really does.
During my working life I have met a number of politicians. I have liked and loathed a lot of them. Tony Benn and Mi Moslem made a huge impression, then along came Starmer.
Not trying to compare, but I had the same sort of gut feeling of rightness with him.