Lang, I'm usually a fan but I'm not happy with a narrative that says homophobia to shut down discussion any more than I'm happy with a narrative that does the same with transphobia. I'm sorry if I'm being stupid and missing something, but you can be sure the liberals are going to need it explained in baby steps where the homophobia lies too. I find it difficult to reason from what I see as false premises (TWAW) so maybe I'm just getting lost. (In logic, false implies any statement at all.)
To be homophobic, her argument needs to in some way imply that lesbians and men are a similar risk to women, doesn't it? Her argument as far as I can see it goes
- Single sex refuges are there so that women can go somewhere their abuser can't follow. (Implication majority of abusers male.)
- In cases where abuser is same sex, refuge needs to take precautions to ensure that particular individual does not come in. (Implication that this is rare so can be handled as an exception.)
- TWAW so TW abusers should be treated as 2.
What I can't see there is any implication that lesbians are a risk in general. Please can someone spell it out? There's nothing implied about the relative likelihood of 2 and 3, it's not implied that the lesbian already in the refuge in 2 is a risk in any way, and it is implied that male abusers much more common. Or is it just the TWAW that's homophobic generally?
I will say again that I don't think it's a good argument. Importantly that women recovering may need a space fee of males in general not just free of their abuser (hence female staff etc). Also that male abusers lie and manipulate to gain access to victims, and if you let in TW you are potentially letting in any male abuser who lies about his gender identity, or male more generally who lies to gain access to vulnerable women. You wouldn't just need to take care if you had a woman in the refuge fleeing from a TW partner, it would actually increase risks across the board.