Genital preferences

[Sexnotgender]

It really bloody rips my knitting when I read comments about genital preferences.

Being heterosexual or homosexual isn’t about genital preferences, it’s a SEXUAL preference.

As in the sex of people you are attracted to.

I know I’m probably preaching to the choir but it’s just another attempt to muddy the language.

Straight men are not going to change their sexual preferences.

Wanting them, or gay women, to do so is another classic example of male entitlement.

My genital preference is for my male partner to have the penis he was born with which IMO makes him male (along with his chromosomes of course).

Camping I'm bi but my sexual response to men and women is different. Back when I was less traumatised and hence less observant of secondary sex characteristics, I found myself responding to a person I was reading as "female" as though they were male. I was properly confused until I realised that the person I was looking at was male. My eyes might have been fooled briefly but the rest of me wasn't.

I’ve also seen people online say that we should call it bigenderal or replace the B in LGBT with a P for pan. There’s some nasty biphobia that has come around lately.

I concur. I suggest #BwiththeL because we and lesbians are facing the redefinition of our sexuality and removal of our sexual boundaries, both imposed by TPAs.

I’d love an l&b movement. If only because about 90% of the shitty biphobic comments have been ‘jokes’ from gay men. Maybe it’s just because I used to hang around with a lot of gay guys but they could be really nasty about bi people.

“Incel logic” is what we have here absolutely.

I had the misfortune to have an AGP person in my social group for some time.

Some of his thought processes and cognitive dissonance and the extent to which he performed mental handstands and convolutions to “argue” that women (and he didn’t want alternative types despite looking ridiculous and being an underemployed needy loser himself - he wanted “slim normal looking mainstream women”) should and did “want to have weird sex with him in which they called him a woman and dominated him” were very, very frightening.

He seemed to have this theory that women were actually repressed and most physically attractive women actually would be really secretly up for weird fetishy sex in which they peg an obese middle aged bloke in a tutu.

It’s just evil socially conservative society and transphobia that keeps us back