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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

17yo sectioned in all male adult unit

53 replies

scotsheather · 23/08/2019 19:04

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-49447655

This was on the news. Just makes me so angry. A vulnerable young woman in a confined space with men.

"She said the men looked at her daughter in sexually inappropriate ways and followed her around the unit."

As if being moved to an adult unit at 17 isn't bad enough. What does it take to get vulnerable women the option of male free spaces when at their darkest place?

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IMissGluten · 23/08/2019 19:15

Ugh; I was on mixed general adult psych wards at 16 and 17 and that wasn't fun (you used to age out of CAMHS at 16). This is even worse. Can't believe this still happens. Poor girl - can't she go in an English adolescent PICU, even though it's further away from home?

ErrolTheDragon · 23/08/2019 19:22

WTF are these facilities mixed?
Poor girl.Sad

littlbrowndog · 23/08/2019 19:28

I saw that in the news. She is in the royal ed. Her mum said 1 guy was following her around. Fucking awful

JoyceJeffries · 23/08/2019 19:29

Just dreadful.

IMissGluten · 23/08/2019 19:38

Psych wards are hardly ever single sex. When they say "single sex accommodation", they mean that male and female rooms aren't all mixed up together, and you don't have to walk through the part of the ward where the opposite-sex bedrooms are to get to the loos for your sex.

In practice, they're mixed wards and there's nothing to stop patients of whatever sex going wherever they like. Or showing you whatever bits of themselves they fancy.

There's usually a women's lounge, too - on the last ward I was on, to get to the women's lounge you had to walk round two corners and past the male bedrooms to the far end of the ward, where hardly anyone ever went, and the corridor and room lights often weren't even switched on. It was generally completely abandoned so you were utterly alone - several corridors away from where any of the staff were, in a room nobody could see into unless they came right up to the window in the door, and even then not the whole room.

Oh, and there were several lovely ligature points that another patient and I spent a few minutes pointing out to each other to pass the time.

IMissGluten · 23/08/2019 19:40

It does make me laugh sometimes when people wank on about conditions for women and children in prison when things are so much worse in psych wards in almost every respect you care to mention.

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SheWhoMustBeSilent · 23/08/2019 19:47

The Equality Act 2010 very specifically exempts hospitals from any mixed sex provision in any way!

See Schedule 3, section 27 [single sex services], subsection 5:

(5) The condition is that the service is provided at a place which is, or is part of—

(a) a hospital, or

(b) another establishment for persons requiring special care, supervision or attention.

www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/schedule/3

This young womane's parents need to get a lawyer and get this provision within the Equality Act 2010 enforced.

And this is why we need to have all of the Exceptions enforced as mandatory provision.

minibroncs · 23/08/2019 19:52

The abuse that happens every day on our mental health wards shames all of us. And I would consider this institutional abuse at the very least.

It's bad enough that we take away the liberty of mental health patients who still have mental capacity solely because they fall into one category of illness, but that we then incarcerate them in mentally unsafe environments, in physically unsafe environments, and on mixed safe wards is abhorrent. When they speak out about the appalling mistreatment they experience nobody listens or believes them because they're "mental" and not considered credible (and how dare you suggest NHS staff might be abusing their power over vulnerable patients).

We take away people's freedom on the say so of people with next to no legal training, we lock them up, we take them away from their homes and everything familiar, we remove them from their social support, we deny access to all their usual coping mechanisms, we take them away from anything that was good in their lives, we remove all their choices and control over their own life and environment, we give them crap inedible food, we deny them fresh air and access to outside spaces, we deny them exercise, we deny them meaningful stimulating activity, we forcibly restrain them and forcibly medicate them in circumstances that are frequently unlawful and abusive, we have male staff physically restraining female patients, staff forcibly pulling down their trousers and underwear to forcibly inject medication, places filled with coercion, patients with trauma histories being retraumatised, patients without trauma histories becoming traumatised...

And then people act all surprised that this does not result in them being magically healed if and when they are eventually allowed back to their shattered lives. Or wonder why patients in hospital are so distressed or become worse, or don't behave how they did in the community.

Shit like this is why I despair every time I see some idiot talking about "if you want to get better, just ask for help" or advocating somebody trying to "section" their loved one. People seek help and our system fucking destroys them and causes lifelong trauma and suffering.

No woman of any age should ever be detained on a mixed ward of any description (eg wards with shared common areas or where the male patients can be seen/heard from the female ward areas) - and that includes staff in determining whether or not it is mixed.

SheWhoMustBeSilent · 23/08/2019 19:55

Does the Universal Declaration of Human Rights have any influence here?

In terms of inhumane treatment [of women], as in:

Article 5.

No one shall be subjected to torture or to cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment.

NeurotrashWarrior · 23/08/2019 19:58

JFC.

Fraggling · 23/08/2019 19:58

I understand about not having separate young peoples facilities, but I assumed they would be sex segregated. There's nowhere for women then? I'm really surprised. If have thought women and girls would be at risk in facilities like this with men.

truthisarevolutionaryact · 23/08/2019 20:00

Thank you minibroncs Such a powerful post.

This poor young woman must be absolutely terrified - as is evidently her mother. It just feels that we are so powerless to protect women and girls in any way. Sad

SnuggyBuggy · 23/08/2019 20:01

I'm shocked that these facilities are mixed sex

colouringinpro · 23/08/2019 20:04

OMG this is beyond horrendous. I've visited someone in an adult male mental health ward and it is the very Last place a vulnerable 17 girl should be. AngrySad praying she's moved very very soon.

littlbrowndog · 23/08/2019 20:12

Minibrocs. I didn’t know. Thank for your post

EL8888 · 23/08/2019 20:29

Wow! Totally inappropriate. I like to think she at least had a female nurse with her 24/7 but it doesn’t say that she did. The postcode lottery is so wrong and unfair

IMissGluten · 23/08/2019 20:54

EL8888 she'll likely be on special obs, so have a staff member with her 24/7 but it's unlikely they could guarantee that will always be a woman. My experience is that they'll try to get you a woman to special you if you need to wash or go to the toilet, and if not, the decent male nurses will avert their eyes, but there are always staffing limitations.

Spartacus — thank you; it's shit isn't it? I've only been on general adolescent and adult wards, thankfully, not the hellholes that many autistic and/or learning disabled people are sent to, but general wards aren't that great for autistics either. Or indeed anyone. But certainly it's hard being autistic on a psych ward.

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Angryresister · 23/08/2019 21:31

In the old days wards were always segregated and it was well known that many predatory males avoiding jail were in the male wards. It also seemed that many women were using the asylum literally as that...to get away from sometimes unbearable lives. Patients were allowed to mix during the day but mainly because the men benefitted from social interaction it was said. It is outrageous that girls and women have to be incarcerated with men .everyone knows this is a huge problem so why is it happening?

VivaLeBeaver · 23/08/2019 21:40

When dd was 17yo she was admitted to hospital for physical health reasons and at 17yo placed on an adult ward. Children’s wards are for 16yo and under apparantly.

So the wards are mixed. Yes there are separate male/female bays but they all open to a main corridor where the toilets are and the men wander up and down.

Dd was on a gastro ward and it’s where amongst others the alcoholics are placed. So a lot of these men had mental health issues but were there for physical health issues. I’ve previously worked on that very ward and was very aware of some of the types of patients on the ward.

It was awful leaving dd there. Male and female patients did wander in the night. There were times when a man would come running past her bay and try and get out the emergency exit near her bed, screaming and banging on the locked door. I had to tell her if she ever felt unsafe not to bother with her buzzer but just to start screaming loudly. Which is an awful thing to have to tell a vulnerable and sick child.

stealthsquirrelnutkin · 25/08/2019 00:03

This has been going on for ages, and it keeps on happening, lessons aren't learned because the men in charge prioritise lower tax rates above the safety of vulnerable people. Here's a paragraph from the article about Karen White on transcrimeuk.com

White then went on to gain access to another vulnerable victim via a mixed-sex psychiatric unit – another closed facility where vulnerable victims could not escape from a convicted male sex offender. White repeatedly raped and subjected the woman to violent, controlling behaviour; in her victim impact statement she also said she had tried to take her own life and was worried she cannot have children due to internal damage from being violently raped by White.

Fraggling · 25/08/2019 02:17

Ok so we need single sex psychiatric wards.

What can we do about it.

No woman should be locked in with men. It's as simple as that.

emerencemaybehopeful · 25/08/2019 02:22

Australia pretty much only has mixed sex wards.

We don't even pretend to offer seperate bedrooms off a single corridor - too much admin.

Last time I was in hospital my mother ended up sleeping next to me on a chair because I couldn't move and was at the end of a corridor with a man in the bed next to me and call times of 30 minutes.

I don't know how or who to lobby for seperate male and female mental health care provision. What I do know is that if young girls were moved into a female only space then being 17 would be less of a problem.

toiletseat · 25/08/2019 09:50

I have a particular interest in the way autistic and intellectually disabled people are treated in mental health provision, and tbh it mostly feels like people aren't that interested.
@SpartacusAutisticus from personal experience - this, a million times Flowers